Ask Anything on Sidechat | Why is it so bad that many men predominantly want sex in a relationship? It’s what we we’re biologically driven to do, it’s the reason males and females across all species get together

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Why is it so bad that many men predominantly want sex in a relationship? It’s what we we’re biologically driven to do, it’s the reason males and females across all species get together

Anonymous 1w

Most women want the emotional connection that relationships offer. Sex is great but comes second. The issue with the men you’re referring to isn’t that they want sex, but how & the way they prioritize it over pretty much everything else. It’s a turn off. Like get to know me first before trying to get in my pants tf. & if you can’t then ofc I’ll never want to sleep with you.

Anonymous 1w

It’s not bad to want to have sex. It’s the approach to sex, it’s a mutual thing.

Anonymous 1w

As a female all I can say is the times I’ve been in relationships the dude can’t keep up cuz I want penis too often. I think whoever ur with just isn’t that into u

Anonymous 1w

across all genders different people have different libido, there is no "biological drive" accurately attributed to biological sexes but men are conditioned to be rewarded for having sex while women are shamed for it

Anonymous

#2 1w

This exactly. I hate feeling like an item to be used, or like sex is done to me rather than being a mutual activity with mutual enjoyment. Also lowkey, everyone can get off by themselves. But you can’t have a fulfilling relationship by yourself. Sex is nothing groundbreaking

Anonymous

#1 1w

Don’t jump to conclusions, people have different libidos

Anonymous

#4 1w

I always see women say stuff like “men only want one thing” so clearly there’s a difference there. Also maybe I’m under a rock but I really don’t see that double standard irl

Anonymous

OP 1w

Maybe I’m too woke but I think the “men only want one thing” thing can be attributed to societal standards, not biology. I mean think about how much pressure there is on men to be good at sex, to be dominant, to be able to ‘get’ women. There’s a lot of societal shame around erectile dysfunction for example, when it’s really only a health issue, but men see it as tied to their self worth. Men are seen as sexual being, and women are really just seen as something to receive that energy.

Anonymous

#3 1w

I think I’m talking around the point I’m trying to make but I hope you get it

Anonymous

#6 1w

yes