
Literally. He doesn’t make you happy, he KNOWS he’s hurting you, and he refuses to change. Also physical affection isn’t JUST sex, so if his “love language” is sex, I think he’s using you for your body. Especially since he doesn’t think sex is for marriage but that buying things for you is (I’m assuming you mean gifts here). It honestly sounds like he doesn’t like you at all and just likes that you’re a warm body he can stick his wang into. If you can’t be happy with him, leave