
Usually a personality issue or youre just anxious and not putting yourself in the right situations. If no one knows youre on the market you cant blame them for not buying lol. But if you talk down about/to women and dont see them as equals thatll squash your chances entirely. No one (with morals) wants to fuck a piece of shit
As a gay girl i get it, its tough to flirt when you feel creepy for even being attracted at all. Id try therapy and reflecting on why you feel “creepy”. Is it your actual behavior coming off the wrong way or are you just in your head? If youre respectful and not actually being creepy, just try to be nicer to yourself (via cognitive behavioral therapy or similar). Having attraction (to adults) isnt creepy inherently, its the actions that can be.