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Why is sex so hard
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Anonymous 2w

if it was soft, it wouldn't go in

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Anonymous 1w

Like #3 said you might have a medical issue, which is very common in women and curable as well

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Anonymous 2w

It really isn’t though

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Anonymous 1w

If it’s challenging for you you may have medical issues

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Anonymous 1w

If youre female could be vaginismus, or it could be anxiety or SSRI side effects for both sexes

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1w

I’m a guy and it’s actually getting the girl to fuck

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Usually a personality issue or youre just anxious and not putting yourself in the right situations. If no one knows youre on the market you cant blame them for not buying lol. But if you talk down about/to women and dont see them as equals thatll squash your chances entirely. No one (with morals) wants to fuck a piece of shit

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1w

It’s my anxiety. I’m afraid of coming across as creepy but apparently I am supposed to let them know I wanna fuck? It’s so confusing

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

As a gay girl i get it, its tough to flirt when you feel creepy for even being attracted at all. Id try therapy and reflecting on why you feel “creepy”. Is it your actual behavior coming off the wrong way or are you just in your head? If youre respectful and not actually being creepy, just try to be nicer to yourself (via cognitive behavioral therapy or similar). Having attraction (to adults) isnt creepy inherently, its the actions that can be.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1w

Can you dm me? I’ll tell you more details in dm

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Yeah but i give advice only lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1w

That’s fine

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1w

How’d it go?

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