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how do i tell my virgin situationship that i want him to be more vocal during sex and that i also want him to choke and praise me without scaring the shit out of him
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Anonymous 2d

Start with vanilla sex and then start communicating other things you like later

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Anonymous 1d

Maybe don’t start with that right out the gate. And you can ask for those, but make sure he knows it’s a choice, and that he can ask for things as well. You don’t want him to look back and feel like he was pressured into it, yanno?

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Anonymous 2d

just say it. guys like directness. word of warning though, choking with an inexperienced partner is even more unsafe than it normally is, and it's never entirely safe.

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Anonymous 1d

Why would someone do this the first time are you dumb

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Anonymous 2d

Tell em study porn

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2d

true but i can teach him

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2d

not if you're losing consciousness. just be careful

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2d

horrible advice

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2d

i fear that would create more problems

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

You say that like you aren’t asking for porn rotted sex acts

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1d

what can i say im a simple man

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1d

that’s deadass my biggest fear

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1d

ur based for this btw

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 1d

thank you thank you

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

I’m sorry guys I was trolling🫩

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

She could always utilize safe words or have a bell nearby to ring if it gets too much

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1d

(Sorry, *he)

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