Anonymous #2 5w

My parents did teach me how to be independent. I take care of myself, I wasn’t saying I was completely like a child, I meant I haven’t felt the difference between how I was when I finished highschool to now. It’s more my mindset hasn’t changed too much in most of the things I do but I still do adult things and get my responsibilities in order

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Anonymous #4 5w

I honestly don’t go to those anymore. I went once and decided college parties were overhyped and was not this big thing like everyone made it out to be and I was better off being in my dorm drinking with close friends

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Anonymous OP 5w

Heard but it’s kinda the same. Kickbacks or house parties get old pretty quick. Took me till 23 to figure it out tho. Nobody’s rushing you to feel like an adult. Enjoy college but you will feel older eventually

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Anonymous #4 5w

I’m in the weird stage where I do try enjoying college and what’s supposed to be “the best years” but older people will tell me I’m to old to be doing stuff and I should be focusing on more important stuff and some things are for children yet others will tell me I’m young and should be enjoying life and I shouldn’t be worrying about some stuff cause I’m not old enough yet. I seriously don’t know where the balance is or when everything just clicks

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Anonymous OP 5w

Yeah bro that’s normal. Ppl will always try to tell you what to do. The trick is to stop caring. Don’t take advice from anyone you don’t want to become.

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Anonymous #4 5w

This is the worst advice I've read today

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Anonymous #2 5w

You tell em mommas boy 👼🍼

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