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Accidentally told my current roommate that we could room together next year (said this on one of our good days) now I want to room with my friend next year. How do I tell her without being mean?
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Anonymous 1w

“Hey I wanted to chat about rooming next year. I like living with you a lot, but my friend is also looking for a roommate and I might want to live with them. What are your thoughts?”

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Anonymous 1w

Keep it calm and frame it like you are checking in with them, not that you don’t want to live with them…

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Anonymous 1w

The truth shouldn’t be looked at as mean

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Anonymous 1w

You can also say that your friend really need a roomate because their roomate is bad, so then it’s just doing it to protect someone else

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

Thank you, I’ll try that

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