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Every guy I’ve been with has asked me if I’m asexual. I’m starting to wonder if I am?
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Anonymous 1w

You might just have a low libido or they have high ones. Or aren’t turned on easily, yk you need more locking throughout the day. I used to think I was asexual, but tbh getting with the right guy made me realize I wasn’t (also getting older, college, prob helped)

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Anonymous 1w

you could be, or you could just have a low sex drive or not been sexually interested in the guys you’ve been with. i always thought i was ace until meeting my current bf

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Anonymous 1w

there are also a lot of identities on the ace spec, like i think im Demi for example.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

What made him different than the others?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

I’m out of college

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

I was just really attracted to him. I thought fue the longest time I would never feel that way about someone till him. I’ve also always settled, getting with guys who were nice instead of being genuinely attracted to their looks as well. He was also a big flirt and teaser, and did acts of service throughout the day

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

I’m sorry I can’t help you out more than that! Oh also not to be that person but alcohol always helped me 😭 cause it makes you turned on

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

what’s that?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

demisexual, means you have to become close friends before being truly attracted to someone

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