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How do I stop hating myself and my life
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Anonymous 4w

Make your life into one you actually like, im in the process of it myself. Working a dead-end minimum wage job after rejection after rejection sucks and broke my spirit, ngl, but im working toward better things. Just keep pushing forward man. And try to have fun when you can

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Anonymous 4w

You tried to look at the brighter, things of life instead of looking at all the negative

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Anonymous 4w

Try to introduce more creativity into it where you can. Daydream. Don’t focus on the fact you can’t have what you want but try to embrace what you have and the possibility that good things can randomly happen. Try to look within yourself and find out where your negative feelings are coming from and think about how you can improve or combat them. Learning about the human psyche might help you understand yourself better. Don’t put too much pressure on yourself to overachieve you’ll get burnt out.

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Anonymous 4w

Fake it until you make it. Might as well pretend life is sunshine and rainbows until you actually start to appreciate all the simple things that make you happy. Combining this with actually building your life by working out and getting your career going etc is what can really make things good and make you feel like you are progressing

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Anonymous 4w

Make time for yourself, learn how to be alone and learn how to be happy alone. Pick up new hobbies, learn new things, find enjoyment in life that relies on only you and not other people. Other people can be unreliable, and hinging happiness on them is equally so

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Anonymous 4w

In the words of George Carlin: you have to have something to look forward to (for yourself to do, not just like a tv show or something) There’s a good interview from George Carlin somewhere on some talk show where he gives a few general pointers about this, I recommend you find it, it’s really helpful on this topic

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Anonymous 4w

It’s a mindset. Visualize what you want. Find the great stuff in everyday.

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Anonymous 4w

By stopping

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Anonymous 4w

Booze

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Anonymous 4w

Get closer to God. Once you realize how He sees you, you’ll learn to love yourself

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 4w

Hang out and friends and family when you can, being social is great for mental health, but you cannot rely on it alone. spending time learning new things, and turning myself into a person who I enjoy the company of, who has interesting things to talk about etc. is how i learned to love myself again

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 4w

it might be because of my adhd and ocd, but routine helps me alot. Everyday, I have a specific time set adide for me to take care of myself and do something I enjoy whether thats an hour of crafting before school or cooking myself something tasty before bed, making sure to take care of yourself and treat yourself with compassion works wonders

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