Anonymous #1 1d

Have you ever consistently tried to make up ur mind more and stop being lazy ?

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Anonymous OP 1d

I try. I go through periods of being super productive and then weeks of not getting out of bed. Over and over and I hate myself for it

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Anonymous #1 1d

Stop brushing ur teeth with fluoride, make a habit to get up even its just for nothing work ur way up

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Anonymous OP 1d

Wait I thought you had to use fluoride? I’ve never had cavities or anything

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Anonymous #1 1d

It’s not good for ur brain or gums

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Anonymous #2 1d

Let’s breaks this down for a second cuz same but it’s not all true. What lies we talking about ? Big ones ? Or ones that frame you to look like a victim to get attention ? How exactly do you push ppl away ?

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Anonymous OP 1d

Honestly idk. Big ones in the sence I try to be funny and I end up hurting people and I say but things that are rude that pushed people away and I’m flirty and I don’t mean to be but no one likes me because if that and I lead people on and hurt people and people have cheated on their partners with me and I know that’s horrible and I used to say I was young but in the moment I’m just like oh well but I’m terrible why would I do that

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Anonymous #2 1d

Ur not a bad person. You just wanna feel important

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Anonymous OP 1d

But how do I stop myself from doing this shit. I want people to liek me

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Anonymous #2 1d

Sounds like you’re trying to be a good person, you just need to slow down a bit. Before you make jokes be sure to consider how the other person will take it. Same goes for flirting, make sure you look further down the line and consider whether the other person will end up hurt. I know it’s much easier said than done. But making people like you requires trust built over time, not quick jokes or quick flirty interactions. Show up consistently and always consider other people’s feelings 👍

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Anonymous OP 1d

Oh my god there was a ligit a parks and rec episode on you, read an article please for the love of god. Floride is not bad in water it’s actually extremely helpful

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Anonymous #3 1d

Yeah lmao one google search told me the fluoride thing was bullshit. It’s good for us fs

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Anonymous #1 1d

It sounds like you could have depression or a form of mania(bi polar or manic depressive), a psychiatrist could help to diagnose and find meds that work for you to balance it out

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Anonymous #5 1d

I’m currently diagnosed w major depressive disorder and medicated for that, but my psych wants to put me on stimulants so gotta see if I meet ADHD criteria. But I really hate using mental health as an excuse to underperform and I get so frustrated with myself

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Anonymous #1 1d

It's not an excuse, it's an explanation. Brain chemistry dictates almost everything about how we act and think, so when you have mental health issues it will cause you to act differently. It's not your fault, it's quite literally just your brain being goofy. If you can't perform normally, meds can help. Don't think of it as an excuse

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Anonymous #5 1d

Thank you for saying that, I’m trying to be less hard on myself it just sucks seeing everyone else able to meet expectations while I can’t get myself to do the work

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