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How to get a boyfriend in college 101 tips?
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Anonymous 12w

Focusing on your classes and learning to prepare yourself for your future should be priority.

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Anonymous 12w

Find one or two hobbies or fun things to do to take your mind off studies. You will connect with guys into the same stuff as you.

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Anonymous 12w

Bro idfk im panicking

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Anonymous 12w

Idk, I found my ex gf off of Yik Yak so IDK if it‘s great advice for you OP, but hopefully it provides a bit of solace in that it isn’t as hard as it seems to find someone. TL;DR regarding the relationship- we broke up but are still friends. We just realized we didn’t work out as partners is all.

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Anonymous 12w

Drag him home

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Anonymous 12w

lowkey i scrolled on tinder when it had school specific pages, and that’s how i met my boyfriend of two years 😭

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Anonymous 12w

Show up at a guys dorm they love it

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Anonymous 12w

Go to a frat party and find one there

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 12w

Well someone has to know!

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 12w

3.8 sgpa, job, gym, and professors love me, I think I’ll be okay😭

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Anonymous 12w

I went out a bit last semester but its all just drunk people (including me) Like I feel like the most you’ll get is a makeout sesh

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 12w

I have a few hobbies :/ Trails, crochet, baking and I’m learning the guitar

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Anonymous 12w

Mm okay I was in a few last year but my school is medium sized so not a lot of people I’ll try out some other ones though and see how it goes, thank you so much

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 12w

Oh that’s so cool Sorry you guys didn’t work out Yeah I mean guys have asked me out but first date in and they’re wanting to go back to the dorm iykwim But maybe I’ll find someone on the app too lol

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

Nice! Find others into that stuff in campus

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 12w

Roger that

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

The trail one can be especially fun

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

Just speaking from experience as a 4.0 gpa holder. My first semester dating a guy my gpa dropped into the garbage. All he wanted to do was spend time together and my grades suffered for it. Seriously. Focus on school. Especially if you’re balancing a job and gym with it. Professors loving you has nothing to do with your grades.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 12w

Thank you so much for your advice I mentioned my professors because I build connections for recommendation letters and references. As for your gpa dropping that really sucks and I heed your warning. But if I went my entire life thinking I can’t date because x,y&z might happen, well then I’ll never have that romantic connection.

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