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so.. if your abusive ex from not even 4 months ago as a new gf, it’s probably a good idea to warn her right? like this guy is legitimately insane and i learned after he and i’s relationship that he has a long history of mistreating women (especially ex’s)
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Anonymous 22h

Warn her at all costs. He may use the crazy ex excuse, but she deserves to know. She can put together the pieces herself and leave.

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Anonymous 23h

Yes but anonymously

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Anonymous 17h

Tell her how it started too, so if she ignores you she’ll still notice the warning signs

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Anonymous 23h

You can try, but there’s a very good chance he will use it as a manipulation tool to isolate her. “That’s my crazy ex don’t listen to her, you can’t trust a single thing she says” etc

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 22h

even so, warning her will give her things to look out for

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 20h

i have a video of him screaming at me while drunk driving/speeding and forcing me to stay in the car, i might just send that to her and if she has any other questions i’ll let her know she can ask me anything

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 20h

Ooooo that’s a good one

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 17h

hard evidence is very good

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