
By not getting in them tbh. You asked if they cared, but the answer is no. If they did then they would’ve wanted an official relationship with you. The good news is, it takes half the time of the relationship to move on. If you had feelings for a year then it’ll take you 6 months to fully move on. But you letting them hurt you AGAIN means you need to work on your self esteem tbh. You deserve better so stop letting ppl play with your emotions.
Because they were in my life before and letting them go was the hardest thing I ever experienced and when he came back I thought he actually wanted me. I thought this time would be different. He apologized I believed he actually felt bad and wanted to try again… I wanted to have hope and be with him so bad … I ignored the red flags. I thought maybe it would lead to a relationship we talked about that and his friends even said that. It started off so promising then he faded away and cared less
* less and less if he ever cared at all. Then it was just finding the courage to leave something I wanted so badly and hoped/ wished for but I knew wouldn’t happen. That realization is hard to come by. And I didn’t leave with confidence I left with the broken denial that I deserved better
I do. I hear what you say. And it’s like my brain knows all of this but my heart won’t believe it. I want to believe 6 months I’m over it. But I was with him two years ago. And I guess I never fully got over him… then he came back and I guess just wanted to use me. I have no idea. Now I really for real need to get over him