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littlepenis_never_dies

 This isn’t sad bait or anything I genuinely want to know has anyone here accepted that they’ll probably be single for their whole life? And not by choice I mean
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Anonymous 1d

i definitely have accepted it as an option but like not in a negative “i’m going to die alone” kind of way. i’ve never dated anyone nor am i trying to rn but i know if i wanted to i could. i’m sure you could too, maybe you’re just looking in the wrong places? i think by putting yourself in that mindset you’re basically nerfing yourself. also there’s nothing wrong with being single, it’s freeing. you can do whatever you want whenever you want, you’re not committed to anyone or anything.

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Anonymous 1d

I’m kinda in this group I’m not the most social or am I very good at being social I don’t want to be alone but I’ve come to terms that this is the most likely outcome

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Anonymous 1d

why would i accept a lie

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Idk man that’s why I’m asking lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

Those are all valid points. I’d just counter by saying that I know in my heart of hearts that I don’t want to be single. I’ve known that I was “ready” for marriage since high school honestly. I have a lot of love to give and I only want to give it to one person sort of thing.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

being single shouldn’t be a bad thing. a relationship isn’t supposed to be your whole life, just an add on. enjoy being single, use it as a way to learn about yourself and solidify your character and who you want to be in the future. life has a way of throwing the things you want at you when you aren’t looking. build your confidence and you’ll meet the right person when the time is right. have faith in yourself🫶🏼

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

It’s not a bad thing at all. I’m just ready to not be single anymore. I measure my value by what I have to offer and if I don’t have anything to offer to a woman as far as a happy life and children and romantic success then what do I really have to

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 12h

Yea and i’m not like desperate enough to do dating apps or follow ppl on social media bc i think they’re attractive. I want to meet my future husband organically 😔

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 7h

Same here, I used a dating app once in high school and the girl didn’t even show up I think they are a waste of time sometimes I hope to meet my future partner organically as well

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