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today i am officially 30 days porn free!!
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Anonymous 3w

Folks laugh but this is really a testament to your discipline. Keep up the good work mane.

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Anonymous 3w

Sick man, keep it up!

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Anonymous 3w

What helped you the most?

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Anonymous 3w

I’m beyond proud of you!

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Anonymous 3w

I need advice on how to quit

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Anonymous 3w

Congrats!!! I know it’s hard to admit and people laugh at it. But internet porn addiction is actually thing that neurobiologists are researching. I was in neurobiology of addiction and we actually read a paper on it. As it’s not in the dsm 5 yet, yet is the key word. You were not alone, and you are still not alone. Keep it up!! I’m proud of you!

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Anonymous 3w

jokes on us, OP is secretly has a denial kink 😪

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Anonymous 3w

The only people who will make fun of you are the people who either 1) don’t have the disciple you have and hate you for it or B) Never experienced it in a way that made it difficult to stop, so they can’t understand what you’re going through.

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Anonymous 3w

amazing! good job man

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Anonymous 3w

You got this, proud of you

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Anonymous 3w

That’s great man. I’m proud of you

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Anonymous 3w

Good for you hun! Porn addiction is a serious matter people overlook

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Anonymous 3w

Each day is a new day. Keep waking up and saying that you have stuff to do today. Stay focused 👑

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Anonymous 3w

Ykw hell yeah

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Anonymous 3w

I’m trying man it’s been hard I’m working on a week from now today’s my birthday and I’ve had enough of this addiction

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Anonymous 3w

I am officially 30 minutes porn free!

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Anonymous 3w

Congrats! 🍑 💦 🍆

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Anonymous 3w

Good for you man. Last time I remember (you usually stop keeping track once you stop) was in July of 2024. Orthodoxy saved my life ☦️

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Anonymous 3w

That’s so awesome

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Anonymous 3w

Glory

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Anonymous 3w

Give me advice on what to do to stop gooning

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Anonymous 3w

Ts is goislop bro but proud of you brother

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Anonymous 3w

W

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Anonymous 3w
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Anonymous 3w

Hell ya

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Anonymous 3w

Mad respect bro!!

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Anonymous 3w

i am about 8 seconds. we all have our own progress.

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Anonymous 3w

I cant goon

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Anonymous 3w

nice man

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Anonymous 3w

Yall in here talkin about the Lord, mane he gave me these parts and imma use them fawk

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Anonymous 3w

How does it feel?

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Anonymous 3w

Amazing bro!

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Anonymous 3w

I have been one almost two years free!! The most freeing thing you can do!! CONGRATULATIONS YOU GOT THIS!! 🫶‼️⭐️

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Anonymous 3w

YAYYYY CONGRATS

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Anonymous 3w

🙌🎉

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Anonymous 3w

It’s better to make it yourself

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Anonymous 3w

Good job, this is really good for your mental health :)

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Anonymous 3w

Good job

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Anonymous 3w

I’m helping everyone who dm me

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Anonymous 3w

Porn has always been free my guy. My guy was paying for all his life 😂

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Anonymous 3w

The Hub is calling for you.

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 3w

step 1, stop opening porn sites or pages

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 3w

Same

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 3w

read smut instead. there’s good stuff on here

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Anonymous replying to -> #23 3w

wait low key i’m not addicted to porn but i wanna try that

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Anonymous replying to -> #21 3w

i personally contribute to the community on here. you’ll like it :)

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Anonymous replying to -> #23 3w

The askanything community…?

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Anonymous replying to -> #21 3w

no… the smut community 😋

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Anonymous replying to -> #23 3w

oh right on

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Anonymous replying to -> #23 3w

Gang that still rots your brain. Still equally bad for you. still sets insane standards and ruins your relationship with the opposite gender

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Anonymous replying to -> #25 3w

it’s a start to get off of porn. it’s just a lot of people talking about their fantasies and real experiences. i don’t see the problem

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Anonymous replying to -> #25 3w

so i disagree. also, you literally just end up reading a lot. seems like a win

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Anonymous replying to -> #25 3w

my motivation is that the porn industry is very exploitative. i don’t have high libido to begin with so i’m not really driven by sex or physical intimacy in relationships anyway

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 3w

And porn is actually demonic

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 3w

Best advice I have (if Christian) is to love God more than sin. Because a habit of sin is showing that you do not YET love Jesus more than sin. Focus on loving Jesus and you will naturally flee sin. They are opposites. Your body is not your own. But it’s important to give yourself grace. Don’t beat yourself up. Putting yourself on the cross does nothing. We need Jesus to beat lust, without him you cannot do it. If ur not religious, I highly suggest looking to Jesus. He loves you yk.

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 3w

My advice is to keep yourself occupied. Just always be doing something, even if that's just listening to music or wtvr. Helped me a lot

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Anonymous replying to -> #23 3w

Smut is still porn

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Anonymous replying to -> #39 3w

OP is clearly talking about visual media

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 3w

Seek Holy Orthodoxy. Last time I remember (you stop keeping track after a while) doing it was sometime in July 2024. I will pray for you. ☦️

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 3w

What worked for me (I’m not the OP, but haven’t done it since sometime in July of 2024) was seeking the Orthodoxy Church.

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 3w

get some hoes

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Anonymous replying to -> #44 3w

Let me know how it goes and how I can help

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 3w

What helped me was keeping myself busy, don’t ever lay around, when you wake up start your day, when you go to bed, don’t stare at your phone just go to bed

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Anonymous replying to -> #23 3w

Reading isn’t inherently good. Like nobody thinks reading comic books is good for you. It’s the content that makes reading good for you and smut is closer to comic books then Shakespeare

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Anonymous replying to -> #28 3w

Ok, calm down

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Anonymous replying to -> #23 3w

Lol where? The smut section used to have insanely good smut now there isnt any smut there at all

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Anonymous replying to -> #23 3w

Brooo can u like send it to me or like lmk what ur username is

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Anonymous replying to -> #45 3w

If you stink take a shower ahh advice

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Anonymous replying to -> #53 3w

What’s your advice, cut your dick off or some shit

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Anonymous replying to -> #47 3w

No

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Anonymous 3w

what are you even talking about

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Anonymous replying to -> #58 3w

Congratulations! I’m 1 hour free!! 🎉

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Anonymous replying to -> #28 3w

porn is strongly correlated with higher rates of sexual violence perpetrated by those who watch it, and this has been supported by multiple studies. so yes it is demonic and you should say it

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Anonymous replying to -> #60 3w

Couldn’t the direction be the other way though? People with those inclinations use porn as a release and it actually reduces violence? A pure correlation doesn’t even tell you if there is a causal direction.

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Anonymous replying to -> #23 3w

Ah yes smut; the vaping of porn.

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Anonymous replying to -> #25 3w

I think reading comic books can be good for you.

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Anonymous replying to -> #62 3w

Why am I getting downvoted? It’s statistics not opinion.

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Anonymous replying to -> #64 3w

Scamming on yikyak is a new type of desperate

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Anonymous replying to -> #53 3w

This was good advice from him

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Anonymous replying to -> #62 3w

Ted Bundy attributed most of his homocidal tendencies to his long-time pornography addiction and multiple studies link domestic violence and human trafficking to porn use. Look at some of the most popular categories of porn and tell me you don’t see a connection to violence.

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Anonymous replying to -> #62 3w

I think it can be, while there has been disgusting people who endure porn, it is not right to think just because someone watches porn it correlates to them being a murder. Your mom has probably seen porn 😂 and I doubt she’s Ted Bundy. 💀💀 all jokes aside if you do struggle with porn this thread offers great advice from other like you!! If not I could tell you what I did.

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Anonymous replying to -> #67 3w

Because Ted Bundy is such an honest and reasonable person… I am just saying that you don’t know the direction of the linkage. There very much could be a connection to violence; it could be negative. People using it to mitigate violence or perform certain things for mutual enjoyment is just as plausible. Also this ignore that 20% of porn viewers are women and their porn consumption habits screw more violent then me (ifs studies)

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Anonymous replying to -> #62 3w

It was an interview of him on death row and I can’t see what he had to gain by lying… 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #42 3w

I have a hot gf and I still occasionally watch it

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 3w

also when you look at what's most popular in porn, the undercurrents of sexual violence are more than clear. the stepsister/stepmom category correlates with incest, the "barely legal/teen" category appeals to pedos, and race-focused porn often reinforces racist beliefs. plus it's impossible to ignore just how degrading mainstream porn is towards women. that's not even getting into just how horrible the industry is for actresses, who report sky-high rates of ptsd, drug addiction, and sexual abuse

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Anonymous replying to -> #60 3w

It’s very true, there’s a lot of illegal practices that go down. You didn’t even mention the working environment that people have to go through in the industry. I get where you’re coming from but those topics aren’t the only ones that people watch so you can’t fully shame it. I fully understand where you’re coming from but I truly believe that you are making assumptions to the general watchers rather than focusing on the dark parts. Women can be addicted to so what would you say to help them?

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Anonymous 3w

A. Who was talking about children? B. It litterally says “the laboratory experiments are criticized as artificial and unrealistic” and marks others as correlational which was the main point of comment. Did you read this? Essentially it is just a summary of disparate problematic studies and normative statements. Nothing really positive (meaning x is proved to be caused by y in population z.) Beyond the lack of value of this summary you still don’t seem to understand that correlation =\= cause.

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Anonymous replying to -> #23 3w

Smut is not better 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #72 3w

it is

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Anonymous replying to -> #17 3w

It’s literally imagination porn instead of visual porn. Anyone with a porn addiction can easily get hooked on smut.

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Anonymous replying to -> #72 3w

it doesn’t melt your brain like the visual stimuli

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Anonymous replying to -> #17 3w

May I ask, do you have any personal experience with porn addiction and smut?

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Anonymous replying to -> #72 3w

Cause I definitely do. As a woman, I was hooked on porn for 8 years. When I decided to get out of it, I thought reading smut was a way to slowly get away with it. Cause I used to read smut before I discovered porn. Sadly, smut still got me going and still poisoned my brain in terms of how people acted and looked like as well as sex. It’s not better. It’s still affecting your brain. It’s still damaging for how you view yourself and others. Thank you for listening to my Ted Talk

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Anonymous replying to -> #72 2w

Please seek the Orthodox Church. The journey is tough but it has and is continuing to help me.

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Anonymous replying to -> #72 2w

17 never responding says it all.

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Anonymous replying to -> #38 2w

Oh I’m in Protestant Pentecostal. I’ve been looking into Orthodox, though

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