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Please pray for my older sister. Shes really struggling and I feel like she’s totally lost herself. I just want her to feel normal again
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Anonymous 1d

Idk if this is helpful, but there was a time I would have given anything to see my younger sister say something like this. She’s a Christian, she just hates me, and thinks less of me because of how drastic my reactions to abuse were. Still criticizes me now as if I am the same person. It’s enough to make me cry still. It gets better, and your support will go a long way in helping her along. Even if she needs tough love. Time heals all wounds.

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Anonymous 1d

Get her help?

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Anonymous 17h

Be there for her and I am praying

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Anonymous 13h

Honestly just being present is good help in itself. Try to bring her stuff or try to take her out if she feels up to it!

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

She just started seeing psych We are. Shes been in a really dark place. And it took so long to convince her

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

I don’t hate her at all. Shes just not the person she once was. Her fiancé cheated on her, and ever since then she’s been struggling in multiple areas of her life. I know she’s depressed. I just want her to be herself again

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

I hope you’re doing better. I really do. I pray God heals the wounds youre still dealing with 🤍

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 17h

Exactly. You’re probably helping her just by being there. Just remember that she probably wishes she were back to normal too, and that isn’t necessarily where she will be when she’s had her time to heal. Meeting her where she’s at is a wonderful thing. And I’m doing well, thank you for your concern. It took me two years to get here, and I’m not the same person, but I’ve got myself back, if that makes sense

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