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I enjoy platonic relationships with my female friends, messing around with 0 feelings attached. Does that make me a bad guy? Or does it make me look bad?
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Anonymous 16w

As long as you’re clear about your intentions, communicating and not leading them on than no that doesn’t make you bad. Though if you can’t be friends with a girl without having sex with one then that’s a little worrisome.

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Anonymous 16w

The two words platonic and messing around shouldn't be in the same sentence. So yeah you're a bad guy and it makes you look bad

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 16w

No intentions. Boundaries made, no feelings at all. I guess that makes me a really nice friend:)

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 16w

Intentions are that you don’t want a relationship and just want sex. Those are your intentions.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 16w

I don’t want sex

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 16w

Then what do you want

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 16w

Nothing. Just fun relationship with friends

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 16w

Oh well you wording of “messing around” made that a big confusing

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 16w

Sorry😆😅

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 16w

If that’s how you think that means

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 16w

Well if you're fucking around with them like making out or doing sexual things with them and you know you're only friends that's fucked up. You're playing with people's emotions

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 16w

It does have 2 different meanings.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 16w

Ok then no shit so would you want some playing with your emotions?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 16w

Omg did you miss the whole 0 feelings attached or something? No need to sexualize everything you come in contact with

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 16w

Are you? Are you acting like their bf?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 16w

OMG you're the asshat with zero feelings. That doesn't mean the other person isn't which is on them

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 16w

No. Why would I want to do that if 0 feelings is mutual. I shouldn’t have to spell it out.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 16w

Yeah ok. All that is just a dangerous game. You can still tell them it's like that and they still catch feelings

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 16w

Trust me. I don’t have to worry about that part

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 16w

Yeah whatever

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