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I enjoy platonic relationships with my female friends, messing around with 0 feelings attached. Does that make me a bad guy? Or does it make me look bad?
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Anonymous 3w

As long as you’re clear about your intentions, communicating and not leading them on than no that doesn’t make you bad. Though if you can’t be friends with a girl without having sex with one then that’s a little worrisome.

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Anonymous 3w

The two words platonic and messing around shouldn't be in the same sentence. So yeah you're a bad guy and it makes you look bad

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

No intentions. Boundaries made, no feelings at all. I guess that makes me a really nice friend:)

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Intentions are that you don’t want a relationship and just want sex. Those are your intentions.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

I don’t want sex

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Then what do you want

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

Nothing. Just fun relationship with friends

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Oh well you wording of “messing around” made that a big confusing

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

Sorry😆😅

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

If that’s how you think that means

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Well if you're fucking around with them like making out or doing sexual things with them and you know you're only friends that's fucked up. You're playing with people's emotions

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

It does have 2 different meanings.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Ok then no shit so would you want some playing with your emotions?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

Omg did you miss the whole 0 feelings attached or something? No need to sexualize everything you come in contact with

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Are you? Are you acting like their bf?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

OMG you're the asshat with zero feelings. That doesn't mean the other person isn't which is on them

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

No. Why would I want to do that if 0 feelings is mutual. I shouldn’t have to spell it out.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Yeah ok. All that is just a dangerous game. You can still tell them it's like that and they still catch feelings

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

Trust me. I don’t have to worry about that part

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Yeah whatever

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Then that’s called a friendship

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