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NO ONE is “self made.” Everyone got help, mentorship, or support from someone else to get where they are. The question is are you too cocky to admit it instead of being humble enough to acknowledge it?
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Anonymous 16w

Self made just means you didn’t inherit your wealth/success, you created it, doesn’t mean you did every single thing on your absolute own

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Anonymous 16w

being self made is accomplished by making your own effort to achieve a certain status, without any inheritance, using your own willpower and ideas to elevate yourself. working with others does not disqualify you from being self made.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 16w

Based on that logic wouldn’t anyone with a substantive financial inheritance be “self made” then?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 16w

I said this in another reply but based on that wouldn’t anyone who doesn’t have a substantial financial inheritance be “self made” then? Feels a bit too broad and possibly dismissive of all the direct and indirect forms of support you had along the way.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 16w

(assuming you meant a substantial inheritance then,) no. if you’re referring to a large amount of wealth, that is. unless, that person who received the large amount of inherited wealth didn’t use it to get to their achieved status.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 16w

Yep meant substantial! Damn autocorrect… right so if we’re excluding people who inherited a large amount of wealth, wouldn’t anyone who didn’t receive that kind of inheritance technically be “self made” then? So like the majority of people would be?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 16w

Hmm, depends on what self made would be considered in that context! Could definitely be most people.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 16w

Ah now THAT’S a really interesting take on phrase I hadn’t considered. I’d still think being aware of the help/support you got would be important but I wouldn’t be as put off by people saying it then.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 16w

Yeah, being aware of all the support you get from others is definitely key! Even for people who could be labeled as self made.

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