Anonymous #1 7w

^^

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Anonymous #6 7w

As a guy, he’s definitely got more important things on his mind such as the Roman Empire

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Anonymous #21 7w

that part😭

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Anonymous #15 7w

will be

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Anonymous #17 7w

Update i just told my mom abt this post and she said yes you are a mom, the mothers day when ur pregnant and the first year u have a baby are the most important mothers days cuz its when you are new to it

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Anonymous #26 7w

Wtf 😭 🤚

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Anonymous #26 7w

😭😭😭

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Shiii, an interesting point you got there.

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Anonymous #29 7w

Yeah, I like that sound of that. But unless she's into memes, I feel like she would hate the literal ness of that🤷

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Actually in my opinion that wouldn’t matter. I think it’s the effort that a mom makes counts. Miscarriage, stillbirth, etc they all made an attempt to be a mom and therefore I wished all my friends who had that a great day

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I have seen post after post on insta stories where mothers post their premature babies and say “momma will never forget you” because it’s real to them. You gonna say “oh actually you can’t celebrate that cause it died” ????

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Anonymous #15 7w

Nah I don’t think not wearing a condom and not being on birth control is something that’s an achievement. Mother’s Day is about being a mother. That can be a mom, a step mom, mother in law etc, those who raise and spend time with their kid. There’s no effort in your body not making a baby that lives. Mother’s Day starts the first diaper you change.

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Anonymous #15 7w

100% your not a mom you’re a late term abortion.

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Anonymous #26 7w

I’m assuming you’ve never carried a baby? It takes a HUGE toll on your body, and a million different things can happen and you won’t know until you go through it. Also, pretty sure mothers who keep the child prepare a room, buy clothes, toys, and all kinds of child stuff in preparation so the effort is still there?? If you didn’t want the baby you would not want to hear happy Mother’s Day

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Anonymous #29 7w

I like that!

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Anonymous #15 7w

Ehhh, I see where your coming from. But it's definetly important to find out how much that affected them. Because you don't want to tell a woman that really wanted to eb a mother that is deeply hurt from the loss, "Happy mothers day" because that would...

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Anonymous 5n34ky801 7w

come off as insanely insensitive given her circumstances and emotional mood

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Anonymous #26 6w

Send this comment to your mother and I guarantee you she would be so fucking ashamed of the trash you’ve become

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Anonymous #29 6w

This! Just the simple happy soon to be mommas day meant the world to me rather than the people who told me I’m not a mom so I can’t be celebrated

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Anonymous OP 6w

I’m #11 🥹. I have done so much to make her feel loved and take the load off. I know she appreciates it and it’s so important to let these moms know they are loved!

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Anonymous 5n34ky801 6w

One of my friends was the one to tell me that she really appreciates it so I always ask my newer friends organically if they wanna hear it. If I’m not sure, I just tell them I’m thinking about them and hope they have a great day. I just want people to be more mindful when they say “stillborns don’t count” because countless women tell me otherwise

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Anonymous #17 6w

i’m sorry but yall acting like it’s christmas or something😭

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Anonymous #21 6w

Lol I came to see if somebody had clocked that

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Anonymous #15 6w

Yeah, that sounds like a pretty good way to go about it. I'm moreso thinking of just saying it to acquaintances. Like if you know that person would be cool about it, obviously you should tell them

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Anonymous #26 6w

That’s what you should’ve been🩷

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Anonymous #36 6w

*to be

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Anonymous #24 6w

What

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Anonymous #41 6w

Unfortunately he is the baby daddy she kind needs him 😞

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Anonymous 5n34ky801 6w

mother to be. pretty obvious what i was saying.

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Anonymous #24 6w

She is a mother, not to be and she obviously also feels like one thus deserves celebration

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Anonymous #36 6w

Being a mother isn’t about pregnancy but rather wanting a child and being given the opportunity to have one to love. She loves her child regardless of if it’s in her or if she’d given birth already thus is a mother

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Your definition denies any mother who may have lost her child from anything ranging from miscarriage to stillbirth from being a mother, so it’s just factually incorrect

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Anonymous #36 6w

a fetus is not a baby. maybe that’s just my pro choice viewpoint but i think this is something that’s largely up to personal interpretation. it’s more correct to say she’s a mom to be tho

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Anonymous #26 6w

GAH DAMN CU! Someone woke up and chose violence 🫪🫪🤯

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Anonymous #39 6w

Tbf, you’re WAY AHEAD than OP

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Anonymous #4 6w

she doesn’t need shit. she’s got her own back and so do we. that man ain’t shit

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Anonymous #34 6w

men can’t grow babies

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Anonymous #10 6w

you must be a male

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Anonymous #36 6w

See, now that's what I'm saying. I feel like it isn't right to be mad at someone for throwing out the technical definition of what it means. Like another person said, it's not celebration of child rearing, so you can't fault the BF for wanting to say it...

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Anonymous 5n34ky801 6w

to someone pregnant

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Anonymous #19 6w

Damn, you must work with the CIA with how pro Single mom you are. If your curious as to what that means, I'm talking about how kids born in a single parent household statistically are are worse off then kids in a nuclear family

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Anonymous #42 6w

Wow, that's quite the insane Double standard. Glad my first time hearing it was on yikyak 😂

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Anonymous 5n34ky801 6w

It’s not a standard. It’s how people have described feeling. Woman already see it as a baby, a separate being, their child. Men on the other hand don’t, they don’t get that fatherly feeling until they’re here on this plane. At least that’s what the baby books used to say.

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Anonymous #42 6w

And there you go saying "Men" in a general sense. I.e proving my double standard. Like apparently single dads don't exist nor do men that very much want to be a father but the hatred of their baby momma prevents them from being one.

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Anonymous 5n34ky801 6w

God you’re dumb

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Anonymous #10 6w

21

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Anonymous #17 6w

Thank youuu🙏🏽

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Anonymous #20 6w

I like this lol💗

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Anonymous #35 6w

Oh my, what a rebuttal

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Anonymous 5n34ky801 6w

Do you not know how to have a conversation? Or do you lack reading comprehension skills? We’re talking about unborn fetuses. Not single dads. You’re talking about minorities and projecting what seem to be personal issues. Take several seats.

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Anonymous #42 6w

No, your gonna need to sit down when I ask this. But what part of this extremely uncommon saying doesn't scream insane Double standards to you. 😐. And plus as a American in the South, I always heard, "Your gonna be a mom, Not ," You are a Mom".

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Anonymous 5n34ky801 6w

it literally makes no sense. bro doesn’t have to do anything. caring for a little human makes a dad😭 can’t father a fetus

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Anonymous #24 6w

So a woman can mother a fetus

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Anonymous #24 6w

Because you do know that a pregnant woman has a harder time doing things then the average woman, due to caring for not just herself but a human fetus developing into a human baby. Like I understand that not all pregnant women have a bf or husband to help

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Anonymous 5n34ky801 6w

But its not just a fact that most pregnant women are better off having someone help them through out their pregnancy but a pretty common dynamic in nature and human history. That being a pregnant women being protected/cared for by someone else...

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Anonymous 5n34ky801 6w

Google is free, I didn’t directly quote anything, I’m discussing a widely talked about feeling in the new parent community. I’m sorry mėn suck. The whole world is a double standard and double edged sword for woman.

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Anonymous 5n34ky801 6w

i was originally saying in here that you can’t be an actual mother until the baby is born which i still believe to be true but i saw good points in here that regardless, the woman is still closer to being a mother than than the man is. im not sure what point you’re trying to make here because it’s not relevant to what i said and we agree on your last two comments

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Anonymous #42 6w

As long as we can come to this conclusion, I'm good ... Your 2nd to last reply

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