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So I’m 9 weeks pregnant is it wrong for me to want my bf to say happy Mother’s Day? It’s not even like I wanna do anything today I just wanted to hear it
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Anonymous 22h

Not wrong to want it. Would be wrong if you’re mad if he doesn’t say it

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Anonymous 21h

Yeah but expectations without communication are unfair. Sure you may want him to just think that way naturally but he might not. Just let him know and he might surprise you with more

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Anonymous 20h

my fiancé is pregnant as well and I said it. Not because she is a mother yet, but because I know that it would wake her feel good. Pregnancy causes so many emotions that just saying it has no downside.

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Anonymous 21h

I’m 25 weeks and everyone around me has mixed opinions about it, it’s just nice to feel recognized so I totally get it! Happy Mother’s Day!!

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Anonymous 19h

“Happy Mother-Under-Construction Day!”

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Anonymous 21h

No not at all you’re going to be a mother and the future and even just being pregnant is a challenge it would be a nice acknowledgment

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Anonymous 19h

“bf” 🥀

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Anonymous 19h

absolutely not. you deserve it. you’re doing all the work

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Anonymous 19h

Happy Mother’s Day!

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Anonymous 20h

Thank you guys and to the person who said happy Mother’s Day💗I told him I just wanted to feel good, I’m not getting an abortion, nd I just wanted to feel good like #11 said

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Anonymous 20h

It’s not wrong at all!! You are already a momma!! Have an amazing day today 💛

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Anonymous 17h

I feel like the appropriate response is “happy soon to be Mother’s Day”

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Anonymous 19h

No I feel like he should definitely say it like your carrying his child

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Anonymous 14h

If my girl was pregnant I’d be so fricken happy and be all gushy like happy Mother’s Day my future baby momma

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Anonymous 21h

Is not wrong

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Anonymous 20h

Nope u deserve it anyways its not that deep to be thinking about logistics of whether or not u actually count as a mother and i would DEFINITELY want appreciation

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Anonymous 17h

how old are you?

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Anonymous 17h

Lmao you’re not even a mother yet. You haven’t experienced motherhood besides being pregnant so why would you expect to hear it?

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Anonymous 21h

Prolly should say it

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Anonymous 20h

L bf

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Anonymous 17h

It’s mother’s day. Not pregnant with a bastard day :)

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Anonymous 16h

Oh some of you are weirdos in here, anyways if he cares to make your feelings valid he would you just have to let him; my fiancé did wish me a happy Mother’s Day as we are 27 weeks and we’ve experienced a loss. Every moment is precious.

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Anonymous 14h

Absolutely not, you are a mother and deserve celebration

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Anonymous 7h

You ain’t no mother yet

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Anonymous 17h

Shut up

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Anonymous 16h

9 weeks may be a bit too soon to start calling yourself a “mother”. Your fetus is about the size of a grape or olive. Definitely a bad line to draw.

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Anonymous 42m

LEAVE THAT MAN WTF

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Anonymous 20h

its not that deep

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Anonymous 7h

Happy Mother’s Day. Today was my due date but she’s still in there. My boyfriend celebrated me. I reported all of the rude comments 🩷

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Anonymous 15h

Lowk he’s growing ur child. A little acknowledgment is far from unreasonable

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Anonymous 17h

not at all men say it for less every year

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Anonymous 20h

It depends are you gonna abortion?

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Anonymous 19h

Can I make u pregnant again?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 21h

^^

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 21h

As a guy, he’s definitely got more important things on his mind such as the Roman Empire

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Anonymous replying to -> #21 18h

that part😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #15 18h

will be

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Anonymous replying to -> #15 17h

Wrong could be a still birth

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Anonymous replying to -> #17 17h

Update i just told my mom abt this post and she said yes you are a mom, the mothers day when ur pregnant and the first year u have a baby are the most important mothers days cuz its when you are new to it

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Anonymous replying to -> #27 17h

Saying it for less would be saying it to women who aren’t mothers. That would be pointless. Almost as pointless as saying it to someone who isn’t even a mother yet

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Anonymous replying to -> #26 17h

Wtf 😭 🤚

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Anonymous replying to -> #26 17h

😭😭😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #26 17h

Shiii, an interesting point you got there.

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Anonymous replying to -> #29 17h

Yeah, I like that sound of that. But unless she's into memes, I feel like she would hate the literal ness of that🤷

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Anonymous replying to -> #26 17h

Actually in my opinion that wouldn’t matter. I think it’s the effort that a mom makes counts. Miscarriage, stillbirth, etc they all made an attempt to be a mom and therefore I wished all my friends who had that a great day

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Anonymous replying to -> #26 16h

I have seen post after post on insta stories where mothers post their premature babies and say “momma will never forget you” because it’s real to them. You gonna say “oh actually you can’t celebrate that cause it died” ????

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Anonymous replying to -> #15 16h

Nah I don’t think not wearing a condom and not being on birth control is something that’s an achievement. Mother’s Day is about being a mother. That can be a mom, a step mom, mother in law etc, those who raise and spend time with their kid. There’s no effort in your body not making a baby that lives. Mother’s Day starts the first diaper you change.

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Anonymous replying to -> #15 16h

100% your not a mom you’re a late term abortion.

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Anonymous replying to -> #26 16h

I’m assuming you’ve never carried a baby? It takes a HUGE toll on your body, and a million different things can happen and you won’t know until you go through it. Also, pretty sure mothers who keep the child prepare a room, buy clothes, toys, and all kinds of child stuff in preparation so the effort is still there?? If you didn’t want the baby you would not want to hear happy Mother’s Day

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Anonymous replying to -> #29 16h

I like that!

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Anonymous replying to -> #28 15h

no shit it’s pointless i’m saying her man obv should b saying it they have a kid together does your brain work properly?

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Anonymous replying to -> #15 13h

Ehhh, I see where your coming from. But it's definetly important to find out how much that affected them. Because you don't want to tell a woman that really wanted to eb a mother that is deeply hurt from the loss, "Happy mothers day" because that would...

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Anonymous replying to -> 5n34ky801 13h

come off as insanely insensitive given her circumstances and emotional mood

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Anonymous replying to -> #27 13h

they will have a kid, if nothing goes wrong along the way. You pretty much just repeated yourself with slightly different wording

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Anonymous replying to -> 5n34ky801 13h

regardless it’s not saying that the woman shouldn’t be called mommy ? she’s asking a hypothetical and i answered that men call women mommy and say happy mother’s day for way less . that’s as clear as day saying he should be telling her happy mother’s day😹

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Anonymous replying to -> #26 12h

Send this comment to your mother and I guarantee you she would be so fucking ashamed of the trash you’ve become

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Anonymous replying to -> #29 12h

This! Just the simple happy soon to be mommas day meant the world to me rather than the people who told me I’m not a mom so I can’t be celebrated

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12h

I’m #11 🥹. I have done so much to make her feel loved and take the load off. I know she appreciates it and it’s so important to let these moms know they are loved!

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Anonymous replying to -> 5n34ky801 11h

One of my friends was the one to tell me that she really appreciates it so I always ask my newer friends organically if they wanna hear it. If I’m not sure, I just tell them I’m thinking about them and hope they have a great day. I just want people to be more mindful when they say “stillborns don’t count” because countless women tell me otherwise

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Anonymous replying to -> #17 11h

i’m sorry but yall acting like it’s christmas or something😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #21 9h

Lol I came to see if somebody had clocked that

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Anonymous replying to -> #15 9h

Yeah, that sounds like a pretty good way to go about it. I'm moreso thinking of just saying it to acquaintances. Like if you know that person would be cool about it, obviously you should tell them

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Anonymous replying to -> #26 7h

That’s what you should’ve been🩷

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Anonymous replying to -> #36 7h

*to be

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Anonymous replying to -> #24 7h

What

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Anonymous replying to -> #41 4m

Unfortunately he is the baby daddy she kind needs him 😞

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