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How should my relationship with my ex (also best friend) change now he’s getting married to someone else (also my good friend)? Ofc we’ve not hung out 1:1 as much and don’t share things as freely. But now should that go further with wedding?
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Anonymous 2w

If y'all are all good friends why are you making this more than what it is

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Anonymous 2w

Since his fiance is also a good friend maybe talk to her and set some boundaries woman to woman? It might also give her a chance to a have a further conversation afterwards with him, that way everyone feels on the same page?

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Anonymous 1w

Did you guys date as children and they got together as adults, or did you sleep with him? It kinda changes the dynamic of the situation tbh. A kiddie relationship isn’t something to worry about but a full fledged adult relationship where he’s not only seen you naked but been inside you is crazy asf. I wouldn’t want you around tbh but I also would never be interested in my friends ex so there’s that lol

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Anonymous 1w

Believe me, I know how weird it is. And it’s a total mindfuck seeing how he’s become a different person

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

Am I just overthinking? Hm. I can’t stop thinking I should be aware of boundaries before they’re put to the test

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

If there's nothing wrong there's no need to fix anything. And just make sure you have yours. Implement yours If asked then give them. Otherwise no need to bring anything up

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

Voice of calm reason. Thank you!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

You're welcome? Please stop overthinking things making them more than what they are. You have to save yourself on stressing unnecessarily

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

That was supposed to be you're welcome!

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

Good idea. I feel awkward about it, but communication is usually helpful. Thanks

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

We had a full on relationship as grownups. It was well over by the time they got together, but I don’t think she knew we had been a couple until after they hooked up

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