Ask Anything on Sidechat | How should my relationship with my ex (also best friend) change now he’s getting married to someone else (also my good friend)? Ofc we’ve not hung out 1:1 as much and don’t share things as freely. But now should that go further with wedding?

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How should my relationship with my ex (also best friend) change now he’s getting married to someone else (also my good friend)? Ofc we’ve not hung out 1:1 as much and don’t share things as freely. But now should that go further with wedding?

Anonymous 22w

If y'all are all good friends why are you making this more than what it is

Anonymous 22w

Since his fiance is also a good friend maybe talk to her and set some boundaries woman to woman? It might also give her a chance to a have a further conversation afterwards with him, that way everyone feels on the same page?

Anonymous 20w

Believe me, I know how weird it is. And it’s a total mindfuck seeing how he’s become a different person

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Anonymous

#1 22w

Am I just overthinking? Hm. I can’t stop thinking I should be aware of boundaries before they’re put to the test

Anonymous

OP 22w

If there's nothing wrong there's no need to fix anything. And just make sure you have yours. Implement yours If asked then give them. Otherwise no need to bring anything up

Anonymous

#1 22w

Voice of calm reason. Thank you!

Anonymous

OP 22w

You're welcome? Please stop overthinking things making them more than what they are. You have to save yourself on stressing unnecessarily

Anonymous

#1 22w

That was supposed to be you're welcome!

Anonymous

#2 22w

Good idea. I feel awkward about it, but communication is usually helpful. Thanks

Anonymous 20w

We had a full on relationship as grownups. It was well over by the time they got together, but I don’t think she knew we had been a couple until after they hooked up