Ask Anything on Sidechat | need advice. started living with my bf who works 40 hours a week. i work 20-25 hours a week and am a full time college student. he says he’s to tired to clean around the house when we have laundry, and waits to do dishes. i need a way to encourage him.

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Ask Anything 5w

need advice. started living with my bf who works 40 hours a week. i work 20-25 hours a week and am a full time college student. he says he’s to tired to clean around the house when we have laundry, and waits to do dishes. i need a way to encourage him.

Anonymous 5w

Do u share rent?

Anonymous 5w

“Hey can you get those dishes done I need to study but I’ll keep the lights on for sex tonight 😘”

Anonymous 5w

Both of y'all are sorry AF over this

Anonymous 5w

Sucky sucky.

Anonymous

#1 5w

Or, who makes the most money in your house? Because you can’t expect someone who makes majority of money for the house and take on houseworks…at least it should be split like 40%-60% or 30%-70%

Anonymous

#1 5w

he pays rent but i pay groceries, cook, clean and most of the things around the house. i mean he comes home and games or just says he’s too tired. i feel like i need a break too

Anonymous

OP 5w

Maybe it helps if you try to talk to him about sharing some work, like you do 60% while he takes care of the rest…if u r covering living expenses and take care of him then housework shouldn’t necessarily be your 100% responsibility (only my own opinion

Anonymous

#4 5w

what?

Anonymous

OP 5w

To be real with you though, 40 hrs a week is nothing for that dude. He sounds lazy/unmotivated. Any idea where it comes from?