How do you respectfully and kindly let your roommate know that her mess is genuinely freaking me out. Im not a crazy organized person and im a maximalist but DAMN this is making me go insane. She started leaving out food and if ants come im gonna go crazy
ya u gotta mention it and if they don’t take it well get a new roommate. in my experience if it’s like that it only gets worse. give it an opportunity if they’re your friend, if not, change as soon as possible