Girl, been here. Do not take the threat likely and tell him that. If he says it, you call emergency services period. It sounds like you’ve made the decision and he’s never going to push you away. You have to walk. Be serious on any talk on self harm that you will call medical services and family. I went through this for like 6 months and just lost myself in the process. It’s exhausting and someone threatening that is not healthy to be around. I wish you the best

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anytime we have arguments or i try communicating a boundary to him he gets upset and thinks im attacking him. he says he misses the old me but that was jst the naive me. the me b4 i learned my boundaries and needs in a relationship. but i also miss the old him when he was more affectionate and considerate of my feelings. he says im sensitive and ik i am but he jst doesn’t seem to care anymore. he doesn’t believe i love him anymore yet wont let me leave his life. idk what to do anymore

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Leave him, tell his friends and call 911 if they don’t hear from him. Do not let him drag you down too. Chances are he is doing this because he knows you are empathetic and don’t want him to hurt himself and he won’t do it fr. In the event that he is serious (unlikely) that is not a matter for you to handle.

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Ask yourself if this is what love feels like

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