yeah if it’s just because you’re not in the mood for sex that’s fair but if it’s because you feel like you have to do something about it or a general feeling of being not fully in control, talk to him about it and gauge the situation based on his feelings and reaction

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Like all the time or is it more uncomfortable when you’re not in the mood for sex? Bc sometimes I felt that same with my ex but it was bc I didn’t like how he treated me during sex, do I learned to dread it

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