Ask Anything on Sidechat | i saw a comment say that if ur questioning if u got SA’d, u were. agree or disagree, and why/why not?

Sidechat

Download

Join communities on Sidechat Download

Ask Anything 1d

i saw a comment say that if ur questioning if u got SA’d, u were. agree or disagree, and why/why not?

Anonymous 1d

agree. consent should be absolutely clear in every sexual encounter. if you're unsure, it was unclear, so your partner should not have continued.

Anonymous 1d

Agree! If it’s to the point where you’re questioning whether or not you wanted that, then that means it should have been unclear to the offender whether or not to continue. They should’ve asked or you should’ve set a boundary.

Anonymous 1d

Agree, my ex really fucked up my perspective of how a relationship should progress due to us having a full-blown makeout session after confessing, which almost turned sexual (it did happen on the second date, which was way worse)

Anonymous 1d

depends, but generally you know whether you actually agreed and wanted something, and when you start down the path of "did it count", you generally were assaulted

Anonymous

#2 1d

To be fair, that doesn’t mean it needs to be a serious offense, just means maybe you need a talk to clear things up, since it made you feel uncomfortable. Not an accusatory talk either, just like “hey, you did this last night, I didn’t really want that, that’s my bad for not communicating but can you ask next time?”