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how much should you like someone before you get into an official relationship? my only real one was someone i was obsessed with already, and i wanna have a normal, fun relationship progression now.

Anonymous 2d

It depends on how long you’ve known each other prior to being romantic I think, but also how you genuinely feel

Anonymous

#1 2d

how should i feel and what are the time frames 💔 i know jack shit honestly

Anonymous

OP 2d

If you were friends for a while first, it’s probably more appropriate to be official sooner into feelings developing but if you’re strangers I’d say definitely take your time to get to know them, you can always know more even if you think you know them well

Anonymous

OP 2d

if you’re putting time frames and trying to quantify feelings, i think you’re not ready for it. respectfully, you’re taking a very immature approach and it’s coming off as if you want a relationship to say you’re in one. back to the original point about time frames,, that’s not a good look because it puts unfair pressure and expectations on your potential partners who don’t know they’re on a timer that they never of to begin with.

Anonymous

#2 2d

i'm just really worried about fucking it up and i wanna do it right 💔im autistic and my other relationships have been very unhealthy so i don't know how im supposed to do it, but i see people all the time talk shit about people moving too fast or too slow. it's not like if i don't move forward with someone, i'll cast them aside, it's a reference point for myself to know if I'M doing things wrong, not them