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Is it weird that I want to have a first bf but I'm not ready for sex
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Anonymous 4w

nah not at all dont sacrafice your boundaries for the sake of someone else, be careful in who ypu pick and choose someone who respects your boundaries

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Anonymous 4w

Not weird at all. Don’t let them pressure you. If they try, they’re assholes.

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Anonymous 4w

not weird in the slightest

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Anonymous 4w

Not at all.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

Cause im a late bloomer I never got the middle school/ highschool pg relationship. Now trying to date I feel like im getting rushed. I dont even know how to kiss or what cuddle position is my favorite, but day 3 they asking about fwb/ sex. This is all too fast. Then I cant tell my friend cause even the one with no dating got kissed in middle school😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

I didnt start dating til i was 18 and didnt have sex for my first 2 relationships. Waiting for the right person who was willing to be patient was definitely worth it having also gone through a hookup whore phase later on, gotta say its not all its made out to be, cant reccomend

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

Cause my religion it kinda wait till marriage. While I dont involve my self with the church it one of the few things I practice. Its quiet simple since I have no interest in sex

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

Then why everytime I mentioned it guys make me feel bad for it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

because they're trying to get laid

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

This is why I listen to my parent im just going to stay single till 30

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

tbf then you'll just have the same level of confusion and unfamiliarity with all this but ten years later

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

Hopefully by then I given up wanting one

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

hey, that works too

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

Its either that and settle in a unhappy relation ship

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