Honestly, everyone is fending for themselves. Everyone is trying to set up the rest of their life in a very small space of time. Not to mention, you’ve ppl who are very different from their backgrounds to their maturity. It’s hard to blend them together seemingly

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People are very focused on their own stuff going on

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Everyone has a different schedule and varying amounts of work. Everyone is kinda atomized

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Because talking to people first is scary that fear of rejection is no joke

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gotta find your people. it’s usually someone you would never imagine having anything in common with. i have one good friend in college and it’s a boy and he’s so silly i never would have imagined having a friend like him lol

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College isn't lonely. You're just lonely

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Everyone’s wearing a mask. Which isn’t a sign you should wear one too, just, people are trying to develop their first identity in a place their parents aren’t watching them, so it takes a minute for them to “come out of their shell.”

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It can be till you just break those invisible barriers 😁 Can’t tell you how many times I just didn’t GAF and I ended becoming good friends with good people. It’s just an invisible game people unnecessarily comply to. You just gotta break it!

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Apply yourself, go to events join clubs, you got this 👊

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Because you’re making it lonely

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