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at what date number and/or weeks of seeing each other is sex expected?
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Anonymous 5w

it’s subjective to the individual person. i feel like sex should be discussed early on so both parties can get a feel on what the other wants LOL

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Anonymous 5w

3rd or 4th date

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Anonymous 5w

don’t come off greedy tho.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

ok that’s fair

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

how early on?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

for me? i’d ask around the second or third date, depending on how often you go out take time to get to know them first outside of intimacy, obv. if things get comfortable enough to talk freely, i would talk about those heavier topics like sex and personal boundaries. not everyone is looking for the same thing—some people need constant sex, some wait for marriage. better to know early on than potentially be disappointed later when the connection deepens. compatibility is very important

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

thanks for that input

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5w

wdym by greedy

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

first time can be iffy for either one of you and great to the other. not a big problem, but after the first time don’t assume it’s an automatic regular occurrence, stay gentle, slow and appreciative of the intimacy. hope that makes sense.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5w

that makes sense. thanks

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