Anonymous #1 1d

Lowkey they’re all I got but they’re so far away now

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Anonymous #2 1d

Idk it’s stuck around for a few months, and all I have is work. Like no social life anymore. I tried putting myself out there the other day and just didn’t know how to be social anymore. It’s bad

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Anonymous OP 1d

everything is temporary and it will get better

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Anonymous #2 1d

Idk I’ve just never found my people I don’t think they exist

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Anonymous OP 1d

same lol but i’m truly happy with myself now

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Anonymous #2 1d

Happy for u just idk ive given up

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Anonymous OP 1d

conquering loneliness isn’t easy but once you’re happy by yourself, you won’t rely on other people for validation. learning to eliminate shame is what has helped me the most

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Anonymous #2 1d

But I think I should be shameful. Like why do I deserve love. I’m ashamed of my past, I don’t see a way out

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Anonymous OP 1d

healing for me was giving up on the process of healing, and choosing to let myself be happy no matter what. idc if i feel guilty, it’s something i’ve learned to ignore. life is short and you deserve pleasure and joy. i realized i used to self sabotage bc i felt like i deserved less, but that’s not true at all. nothing is promised in life and you can have the world if you give it to yourself

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Anonymous OP 1d

i also smoke everyday lol bc it keeps me grounded

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Anonymous #2 1d

But I need to be healed, like I hate myself as I stand now and rightfully so

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Anonymous #2 1d

My grandpa died to smoking lol never got to meet him cuz of it. Almost ruined my dad’s life. Not for me sorry

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Anonymous OP 1d

you can start by treating yourself better, your mind will catch up. we’re easily trained

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Anonymous #2 1d

I’ll try but I simply don’t deserve it

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Anonymous OP 1d

you gotta let go of the self pity shit too, nip it in the bud. nobody is a charity case including yourself. you do deserve care, and you’re responsible for taking care of yourself

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Anonymous #2 1d

Idk sorry. I’m just kinda losing it and have been for a while. Idk eventually the voices will win

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Anonymous #3 1d

It’s not ideations for me, it’s I have no hope. I don’t think my life is gonna work out well. I don’t see me finding someone to love, i don’t see myself finding a cool job, I’ll never own a home, have kids, I don’t think I’ll find god so I’ll burn in hell when this is all over. I don’t think I’ll have time to enjoy my hobbies. Like best case scenario for my life is a lonely life, with decent job and some hobbies. I don’t see me finding a wife cuz im a piece of shit ngl

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Anonymous OP 1d

Relate. You can change it though. Not with psych pills.

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Anonymous #4 1d

Idk man

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Anonymous #4 1d

I did just it never pays off that’s all

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Anonymous OP 1d

… did what

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Anonymous #4 1d

Worked on myself, I got the dream job and it sucked. Thought I found the woman I’d wanna marry then it didn’t work out. Thought o found friends many many times but rn I don’t have anyone. It simply doesn’t work out for me. I don’t deserve it to anyways

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Anonymous OP 1d

None of that is “doing the work” and you’re stuck in what you think should be. And a shit mindset.

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Anonymous #4 1d

Sorry

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Anonymous OP 1d

Don’t be sorry to me. Just do things for yourself. If you wanna chat, let me know. I can give you some resources.

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