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Why don’t t guys come up to you anymore?
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Anonymous 2d

The main reason, it’s just not safe anymore. We have created a world where even a simple compliment can be taken so wrong we get in trouble. The second reason is it’s all become too transactional, genuine meeting or connection has been replaced with what can I get out of them.

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Anonymous 2d

Because silly ass women have stated they no longer want to be approached. Most of them are too scared to do it anyway. Then they stated that nonsense.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2d

Dude, as long as you know how to talk to a human being, you won’t be labeled as a creep. Be funny, be charming, be relaxed, and play it safe at first. Dont just jump straight into sexy stuff. Flirting is literally just gently pushing boundaries to see if she responds, and backing off if she doesn’t. As long as you don’t just go straight up to her and compliment her appearance. That’s not very subtle and indicates that the only reason you want to talk with her is because you want to fuck her.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2d

What's with this dude shit? IDK why you took 2 paragraphs to try to tell me how men need to talk women. You might want to find out what gender the person identifies with before assuming what they are upfront. Thank you for news no one can use. You wasted your time typing something that we already know

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2d

I'm trying to tell you the fact that women bitch about getting approached was fucking stupid period. Now the normal women have to suffer because the other stupid women fucked it up for the normal women that ain't on that stupid don't approach me bullshit

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2d

It’s not just for you, it’s for all the men who think women will call them a creep for approaching :) But tbh, between your original message and this one, it sounds like you’re just in a bad mood, so you can take it or leave it

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2d

They still know that already. Anyone with common sense already knows they're not a creep for showing interest in a woman. Genuinely wanting to get to know her better to ask her out. So men already knows how fucking stupid that don't approach me bullshit is

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2d

And that's real men not the dumb ones. Not the ones that's already too scared to even talk to a woman anyway. And of course that's you internet people's go to is I have to be angry cause I cussed. Y'all can keep thinking it. I'm over that silliness

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2d

Look at the comment below us. I think a lot of men are still under the impression that a simple compliment will lead to them being called a creep. Really, it’s just a justification for being afraid, and something external to blame when they can’t get any dates. They just don’t want to take accountability and realize that they need to work on their game. We’re on the same page my friend 😆 I’m sure you know that. I think you may just be angry at something else right now. Hopefully it gets better

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2d

WHICH IS FUCKING DUMB! No they don't have to step up their game. Again real men know this already. I've discussed it too many times with them. They think it's complete stupid that women have shifted into behaving like this. We both agree on it. I want a man to approach me. I wish more did. But they don't because anymore because they don't want to be accused of something they already know they're not

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2d

I hope it gets better?🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Just sad you internet people. I love how you people just keep telling me I'm angry

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

You should really follow their advice tho, it looks like you need it

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Anonymous replying to -> noctiluca 1d

No one rang your buzzer ma'am. Yeah and you're ugly

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

What are this 3rd grade level insults 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> noctiluca 1d

Yep when people act like they're in third grade

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

What a comeback

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Anonymous replying to -> noctiluca 1d

Thanks

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