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HOW DO I STOP CRAVING MALE VALIDATION WHEN I HAVE A BF 😭😭😭 i’m cooked
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Anonymous 2w

Tbh Social media has ruined people as a whole, and issues like this are very common now. Try unplugging and being present with your partner and your shared life together.

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Anonymous 2w

Just don’t be a slut

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Anonymous 2w

Build your self confidence. Go to therapy. Fix your relationship with your father.

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Anonymous 2w

This is sad..

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Anonymous 2w

i hope ur bf sees this on your phone

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Anonymous 2w

Address the root cause, maybe see a therapist. A lot of the time a craving for validation comes from a fundamental misattribution of worth. Try to objectively look at why you crave the validation, what are you getting from it. “What good are you seeking?” as a philosophy teacher would say. Once you find that you can distinguish if it’s coming from an unmet need that should be addressed, or just a character flaw that has to be overcome.

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Anonymous 2w

No felt this. Like I NEED IT but I love my boyfriend more so I dont push it

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Anonymous 2w

me but i don’t have a bf

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

not really helpful feedback

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2w

it kinda is 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 2w

js dont be a whore

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