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I have never been approached does that mean I’m intimidatingly gorgeous or chopped shyt
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Anonymous 4w

Same! And it’s frustrating because men HAVE checked me out or shown to be interested (caught looking repeatedly and things like that) but despite that they still haven’t approached me.

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Anonymous 4w

Chopped most likely, sorry to tell you. Best case is that you’re cute but look unapproachable. I say that cuz ik I’m very pretty and I get hit on pretty much every time I go out. White guys, black guys, Hispanic guys, Arabic guys, etc. At restaurants, bars, clubs, grocery stores, gas stations, gyms, etc. So maybe try smiling at them or at least not having a resting frown and if that helps then yk you’re pretty.

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Anonymous 4w

It doesn’t mean anything

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Anonymous 4w

How about a little of both

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Anonymous 4w

It depends on their perspective

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4w

Men won’t approach anymore. Too much can go wrong. But it’s 2026, you can approach them too.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 4w

Can I see you?

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 4w

I mean ngl I like posting anonymously so ig u can dm me but don’t be weird.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 4w

Can I ask if you’re conventionally attractive or unconventionally attractive?

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4w

Rightt I regularly get stared/smiled at and even followed around stores but never spoken too

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Conventionally. I don’t really have any unique (like Cara delevigne’s eyebrows) features. Pretty eyes, pretty lips, symmetrical face, regular sized nose that’s straight no bumps, and high cheekbones. And a lil flat beauty mark by my eye!!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Idk I don’t wanna doxx myself but like idk I know I’m beautiful. I date 10s. I get hit on more than my VERY pretty friend when we’re together. Sometimes I look in the mirror like “dammnnn I’m so beautiful!”. All of my crushes always liked me back, even the most popular guys in school. I’m just a pretty girl ig. I’ve just always known. Try not looking at yourself for a day or two, then look at yourself like a stranger would. If you look/feel pretty then you probably are idk

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Ik that sounds so conceited btw but I’m just tryna explain 😭🤣

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 4w

Send me a DM, I just wanted to see.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 4w

I feel like yall are just hoping I’m ugly so that yall can try to cope and no matter how pretty I am you’re going to try to play like I’m ugly. I get hit on a lot. If you don’t then idk maybe you look mean or dress badly or are fat or are just ugly. Doesn’t change my life or my experiences. So no I’m not going out of my way to doxx myself atp.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 4w

I’m a guy 🫣

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