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I want to break up with my fiancé, ask me anything
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Anonymous 1w

did they do anything in particular that’s making you feel that way?

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Anonymous 1w

It sounds like he’s just going to continue to be very controlling which I’m sure you know. Doesn’t mean it’s coming from a bad place but still run lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

It’s started as kinda small, but he’s become controlling lately, looking through everything on my phone, not letting me go when I want to leave a movie night, and saying things like he can’t live without me. I genuinely believe I would be happier with a fuller life without him.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

ok so I guess my question really is- is there any reason you have tht you would still want to marry him?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

His only saving grace in my eyes is that I know he genuinely cares about me and would always have my back no matter what, but I’m not willing to give him my life

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

have you tried communicating with him about how you feel about the way he’s been acting? have u tried seeing why he’s doing all of this?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

The nail in his coffin was when he was mean to my little brother and said he would take me to Texas (my fam is in the NE and I’ve told him many times I don’t want to go to Texas)

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

oh wtf??? why was he mean to ur little brother?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

It’s like talking to a brick wall because he refuses to see the harm in it, that’s also another thing that’s been bothering me, when I bring it up it’s immediately brushed aside

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

I mean I would very candidly say you aren’t going to marry him if he can’t have a conversation with you about your feelings about his behavior because absolutely not

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

And he knows that I need my sleep, yet it’s like moving through molasses to get him to take me home after a movie or to simply let me leave (we’re both religious so no slumbies)

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

It wasn’t always like that, which definitely made it harder to recognize, but he was normally so willing to talk about anything and I would see positive changes in him almost immediately whenever his behavior was not right

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

For the little brother comment, my lil bro was trying to teach him MtG and we were all playing together, and my lil bro is mad annoying ngl, but he’s a young teenager so that’s to be expected, and my fiancé just started ripping into him over and over, all because he was frustrated over a card game

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

oh my god no

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

I take back my previous comment about him having a saving grace, ya girl was BLINDDDDD

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