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CAN PEOPLE STOP SAYING SHOULD OF ITS SHOULD’VE- SHOULD HAVE
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Anonymous 18h

Like if it’s verbally it’s fine, could be a dialect thing, but written it bothers me too

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Anonymous 17h

You should’ve never post this weak ass take

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Anonymous 16h

typing, i agree. but when you say "should've" aloud, it sounds an awful lot like "should of"

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Anonymous 16h

Shoulda coulda woulda

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Anonymous 16h

ugh yes i completely agree with this, i hate bad grammar

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Anonymous 17h

You should’ve mentioned this sooner

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Anonymous 14h

This is how I feel about “are” and “our”

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Anonymous 12h

my pet peeve is “could care less”. IF YOU COULD CARE LESS, YOU DO CARE. YOU COULD NOT CARE LESS. COULDNT.

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Anonymous 17h

How about you shut the fuck up

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Anonymous 17h

I should of not read this 😆

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Anonymous 16h

Saying that something sounds wrong verbally and that we should all use the same pronunciation is elitist. People pronounce things differently depending on the region, dialect, their accent, etc. -sincerely, an English literature major

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Anonymous 15h

if it’s verbal i bet you they are saying “should’ve” not “should of”

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Anonymous 15h

And stop saying 'more risky', 'most friendly' it's riskier, friendliest

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Anonymous 15h

I “could care less” about this (lol that’s my pet peeve)

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Anonymous 13h

IT’S* not ITS 😁

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Anonymous 17h

Wdym why it’s a valid contraction

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Anonymous 15h

I’m a masters graduate student who has to teach one class of English Composition 1 every semester and when I say the amount of times I’ve had to correct things like this (“should of” instead of “should’ve”) is insane, I mean it 🥲❤️‍🩹

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Anonymous 11h

I’m uncertain now which one I’ve been saying

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Anonymous 8h

Kim there are people dying.

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Anonymous 5h

Who is saying should of

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Anonymous 11h

Should of would of could of

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Anonymous 8h

Engrish herd

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Anonymous 11h

Eh, language changes with use. If you fight every change in grammar you’re fighting a losing battle

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Anonymous 11h

I say should of like I say gonna. Neither are grammatically correct but I’m lucky if I don’t fumble my sentence

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Anonymous 17h

You shouldn’t of bothered saying anything here

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Anonymous 16h

Should of could of would of never thought to do that 🙃

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Anonymous 16h

It’s not a big deal babes

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Anonymous 17h

America is trying to keep making these kids stupid!!! Like this grammar shit u learn in elementary!!! One interesting theory I heard was that they stopped teaching cursive so the future won’t be able to read the constitution

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Anonymous 16h

bro does NOT know about aave

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 17h

Maybe you’re just an idiot

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 17h

I can’t lie that’s a stupid ass theory

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 17h

It’s not fine verbally lol. It still sounds stupid

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 17h

Lol the constitution is in plain text literally everywhere. No way you actually believe that

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 17h

Cursive is literally print with some extra curves horrible theory

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Anonymous 16h

i said something similar because what do you mean the creator definitely doesnt know what aave is

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 16h

should of isn't a valid contraction

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 16h

Should ‘ofnt 💀

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 16h

Well yeah but the post says should’ve

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 16h

It’s not that, it’s that typing “should of” literally makes zero sense.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 16h

you brought saying it too

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Anonymous replying to -> #17 16h

Obviously talking about typing here, smart one. Typing “should of” makes no sense

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Anonymous 15h

clit

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Anonymous replying to -> #18 15h

Professionally speaking, it is. You don’t want to make simple mistakes like that when communicating with a customer or your boss/coach/etc. It’s simple to make the mistake bc that’s how it *sounds* but, professionally, no. Even in communication with your professor/instructor

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Anonymous replying to -> #21 15h

And it's 'different from', not 'different than'/'different to'

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Anonymous replying to -> #21 15h

(unless it's in a sentence like 'it's more risky than safe')

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 15h

In a reply, you said it sounds stupid verbally as well. In typing, I agree that you should use proper grammar. But bashing the way someone pronounces it verbally is still wrong

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 15h

Aave doesn’t account for typing “should of” when meaning “should have”

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Anonymous replying to -> #17 15h

Because it is stupid verbally

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Anonymous replying to -> #22 15h

That too. And don’t get me started on grown people not knowing which version of you’re and your to use.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 15h

verbally yes

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 15h

You had me in the first half… but the constitution part?? Nah gtfo with that crap 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #23 14h

Yeah that part genuinely has to be one of the dumbest things I’ve ever heard

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10h

It sounds very similar to the contraction that’s the only reason

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 9h

i think it’s a mistake to call this aave

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Anonymous replying to -> #31 9h

to my knowledge and what i have been exposed to in my lifetime this is in fact common in aave as well as less developed areas of the country (let’s say this is currently in the usa). these two do NOT always interfere with one another but cultural backgrounds influence a person speech as much as education.

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Anonymous replying to -> #29 9h

this is not the same. you are saying should’ve, not should of. should of is not anything in english, but gonna is an actual contraction of “going to” like should’ve is “should have”

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Anonymous 9h

why are we advocating for a decline in literacy

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Anonymous replying to -> #31 9h

this attitude of feeling like no one should ever correct you is literally causing people to be dumber. why is the first reaction to being corrected “you’re policing people”? is it wrong for me to want my constituents to be well educated? is it wrong to fill in peoples’ gaps in knowledge? as for the tone of the post, it’s people who LOUDLY don’t care about being wrong who are an issue, because they refuse to learn or grow and then they spread their own mistakes to learning children online

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Anonymous replying to -> #31 9h

I hear you and agree but Let them rot and just go hang out with people who care about having respectable communication skills

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Anonymous replying to -> #27 9h

Somewhere else

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 8h

how does one differentiate a common mistake made by many but not all people in one region from actual aave? i promise i am actually trying to understand, i just truly feel like this is a result of an educational situation rather than cultivated language

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Anonymous replying to -> #34 8h

the people dying wouldn’t want you to use them as an excuse for your intentional obtuseness

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Anonymous replying to -> #31 8h

Everybody has seen good will hunting these days

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Anonymous replying to -> #33 8h

Lel

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Anonymous replying to -> #31 8h

well from what i am seeing, op is using dog whistles to speak about something that can be caused BY cultural exposure or poorly funded education and that comes from a place of privilege. there are better ways to word this post.

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Anonymous replying to -> #34 8h

Who is Kim

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Anonymous replying to -> #27 8h

Mr. Kim? The greatest math teacher in the entire 8th grade. God read a book

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Anonymous replying to -> #33 8h

Wow the racist downvote audacity. What in the Azerbaifuck ya think you’re doin coward??

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Anonymous replying to -> #27 7h

it’s a reference to kim kardashian losing a diamond earring in the ocean and crying about it

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Anonymous replying to -> #34 7h

Damn, tough crowd huh

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Anonymous replying to -> #34 7h

Yk what, A for effort

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 7h

Where tf did they use dog whistles? 💀

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Anonymous replying to -> #17 7h

Saying that something is grammatically incorrect is not elitist 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #35 7h

If they’re saying “should of” that is incorrect

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Anonymous replying to -> #33 5h

Hey thank you, appreciate that

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Anonymous replying to -> #33 5h

Crinve

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Anonymous replying to -> #29 5h

You just gotta be right huh

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Anonymous replying to -> #28 5h

It’s not a change…some people can’t read… wake up

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Anonymous replying to -> #26 5h

Either is fine I think. Someone saying “I can go lower” or “I can’t go any lower” they are both negative/dismissive connotation

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Anonymous replying to -> #24 5h

Only in the south do they do that. I remember being in first grade and noticing the teacher teaching us weird and I asked about it, our and are, and she took a sec to actually say it right wtf lady

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Anonymous replying to -> #21 5h

This is like a dialectic thing. Too friendly, miss friendly and friendlier, mister picky choosy, acting risky, acting scary, in a court room yea say it right, with the bruhs do whatever

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2h

How about you learn proper grammar.

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 16m

which dog whistles? this seems like a crashout i’ve seen before about there their and they’re. while educational differences can cause cultural differences, i don’t know that Should Of is quite an aave term though because it’s not a mistake that’s exclusive to black people and isn’t something that stemmed FROM the black community. it’s a very widespread grammatical misunderstanding that comes from not thinking of the spelling of the word when speaking

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