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Question for parents , why is one enough ? I’m an only kid and it sucks now that I look into it
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Anonymous 2w

Sometimes it’s really all they can afford or just happens (also an only child)

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Anonymous 2w

I used to wish I had a sibling but now I realize it would be selfish to wish someone else experienced growing up with my parents :/ I can deal with the closest thing being my fiancée's siblings

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Anonymous 2w

Affordability was my moms reason to only have me

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Anonymous 2w

sometimes 1 is too much to handle (an only child who has been told this to her face)

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Anonymous 2w

For me it was the burden of doing most of the parenting by myself men are not as selfless. I felt I needed to have another so my kid wouldn’t grow up alone but I decided against it cause I know that kid would hate me cause I already gave all my love to the kid I did want and I’d have no love left to give. Plus you lose all your freedom when you have a child and by that I mean the school system the financial burden the insurance the daycare losing your career choices so one was enough.

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Anonymous 2w

A big one is your parents found each other later in life. And biology limit them to one kid. Another one is money. Having two kids is EXPENSIVE!

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Anonymous 2w

I have 6 siblings. Consider yourself lucky. They suck

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Anonymous 2w

Sometimes it isn’t a choice

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

My parents had no issue with money or anything but I do see your point

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Anonymous replying to -> catlvr 2w

I agree my parents are both not kid friendly st all

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

Makes sense

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 2w

Gah damn!! You must’ve a very good looking mom and a very loving dad

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 2w

my mom jokes that "I had an easy kid why would I push my luck" but I was only easy to take care of because I was neglected and witnessed a lot of abuse so I didn't feel like I could voice my needs. Both of my parents say they thought they would have another kid but it just never happened.

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