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my friends clown me n call me a simp for lettin myself get friendzoned. but im not simping or doing extra for them. i just dont mind having pretty girl friends that arent interested in dating me. are my friends telling me what i need to hear or am i fine?
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Anonymous 22h

I mean if you’re really just friends it’s fine but if you genuinely are hoping for more with them then maybe theyre onto something.

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Anonymous 22h

They’re just shitting on u man. Let it slide and next time it happens to one of them u gotta pull out the simp card

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Anonymous 19h

They clown you? Grow some balls and tell them go to fuck themselves. You can hang out with whichever friends you want to hang out with.

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Anonymous 20h

I am friends with so many beautiful girls and there are a few beautiful girls that I was friends with and we fucked and now I never see them anymore because we didn't end up dating so it's definitely worth it to keep things strictly friends if you value them as friends and will be happy staying friends with them

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Anonymous 17h

There’s nothing wrong with having pretty women as friends without expecting anything romantic in return. Being a good friend doesn’t automatically make you a simp. As long as you’re not putting them on a pedestal, chasing them, or doing things hoping they’ll eventually date you, you’re perfectly fine. Sometimes people just don’t understand that men and women can genuinely be friends.

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Anonymous 14h

Being content in friendships with women is 10000% a green flag actually. It means you see us as people, which many men do not.

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Anonymous 10h

You can pivot king. Tell them your not interested in any of them and you see them as pals. They hate that shit. They’ll start to prove you wrong…

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 18h

i’m not being friends just in case something might come of it, i’m fine just being friends genuinely. i mean if they are into me later and i still am into them then so be it but yeah it’s not like im playing the long game 😂

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 18h

yeah friends is fine with me. plus who knows maybe being friends with them will introduce me to someone else or something, or not. just fine being friends and platonically enjoying life

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 18h

i do tell them that lol but you know the little voice in my head starts second guessing myself. like they say sometimes your friends tell you what you need to hear, or like outside perspectives can be valuable. but yeah i think for the most part they are just teasing me

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