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anyone have advice for being a dominant woman in the bedroom?? my boyfriend wants to try being submissive and i want to try being dom too but idk where to start or what exactly to do. anyone have ideas or advice?
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Anonymous 3w

PEGGINGGG!!! This is not advice I just got excited for you ❤️. That’s next level stuff 🤓. I guess I’d say for real advice make sure you feel very confident in yourself. I think since society always pushes the dominant/man submissive/woman idea, you could start small by being the guiding one in the bedroom and deciding what the activities are

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Anonymous 3w

if it feels like you can't get into the groove, it might help to treat it like you're pretending to be someone else who knows what they're doing

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Anonymous 3w

Tie him up and make him eat you out, the trick is inducing helplessness

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Anonymous 3w

Just make him strip to his underwear and do a bunch of chores and then give you a foot massage or something

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Anonymous 3w

Your boyfriend sounds like a soyboy

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

bruh.. hes always been dominant we js want to try switching things up

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

I’m so disappointed in my generation

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

god forbid a man wants to be submissive what 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

guy who can't talk to women crying about how a different guy has sex with one

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

White knight she’s not gonna fuck you bro

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

No fr

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 3w

is it really that simple? lol

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Well it’s a start. Maybe there’s some YouTube tutorials out there

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

this is just embarrassing for u, ur obviously insecure with urself to find something to talk shit abt anonymously, idk if u realize this but people dont make every choice with the ulterior motive of getting pussy. js say ur a virgin and move on

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Lmao love when people get so triggered on here

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

Hey man quit wasting your time and just go fuck yourself since obviously no one else wants to lmao

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 3w

So many possibilities, how fun! You could explore dominance by playing with his body and making him feel a lot of pleasure, you could also explore dominance by making him pleasure you, ordering him around, etc. etc.

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 3w

Maybe a position where you’re on top and he’s not allowed to move, only feel what you give him. Of course this is a taxing and tiring position, and a lot of work. When in doubt, to the internet! Ngl it’s hard to find videos about these things that aren’t just absolutely crass make fantasy slop or videos that dive into the deep end of dominance so I’d try to check out some websites

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 3w

Here’s a thought: edging

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 3w

Girl I’m so excited for you I looked up some sites rq LOLLL https://vellabio.com/blogs/vella-voice/show-your-gratitude-by-unlocking-your-dominant-side?srsltid=AfmBOopLSWJeXHqgE-7tBx9rGypxdhV5DQAQ3jNbjyYEV11GeAjM33id https://badgirlsbible.com/how-to-be-dominant

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 3w

To be clear: I do not have any experience whatsoever. I don’t want to come across as like some sort of bedroom experience LARPer. These rlly are just ideas I’m throwing out here.

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 3w

Male fantasy slop*

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

Me when I get no puss so I lowkey gotta dog on a happy couple

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 3w

LMAOOO girl thank u u are so sweet this is all really helpful

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