Anonymous #4 6w

ratio of men to women is 101:100. if it’s a option for women it is a option for men as well. Plz tell me what reasonings makes it so much harder for men?

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Anonymous OP 6w

If you aren’t rhetorically asking this question you are too uninformed to have this convt

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Anonymous #4 6w

or you can give a answer. I’m not a man so i’m ASKING, what hardships you feel you have… there’s nothing uniformed about asking something that you have no first hand experience with.

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Anonymous OP 6w

Most guys cannot get dates even blindly (without caring if the girl looks good enough). Any woman can get a date with an average normal guy they just choose not to.

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Anonymous #4 6w

That’s because most “dates” turn into guys just wanting to hookup or they end up ghosting the girl. If you can’t get a date “blindly” don’t rely on dating apps as that’s part of the issue. Guys can get dates too if they made the efforts to approach women in a normal way

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Anonymous OP 6w

No one forces women to hookup they do it by choice at the end of the day. Also more relationships occur through apps than irl nowadays. Pretending irl is any better is ridiculous

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Anonymous #4 6w

okay I will dumb it down for you since you clearly don't understand. I'm not saying women are being forced to hookup, i'm saying on dating apps most men are only their looking for hookups and often tend to ghost or ignore the women afterwards. Pretending that swiping left or right on someone BASED on looks vs being able to see a persons looks, personality, and vibes all in one IN PERSON convo will always be better. Dating apps are used to take the effort out of meeting someone authentically.

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Anonymous OP 6w

If you get 100 matches not all of them are looking for hookups. Whereas if you get 2 matches a month you can’t even get a date

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Anonymous #4 6w

I think you over estimate how many matches women get💀 and matches doesn’t automatically mean chemistry. again if dating apps don’t work for you GET OFF THEM AND ASK IRL. I would hope 100 ppl wouldn’t be looking for a hookup but when most men’s profiles say “short term” or “figuring it out” they are most often going to try to meet for a hookup, and or ghost when it takes too long to get there

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Anonymous #4 6w

If you wouldn’t approach 8 women in person and expect all of them to say yes to you, don’t do it online and expect to get different results that’s just stupid

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Anonymous OP 6w

Most women’s profiles say figuring it out also lmao. Also most women easily get 50 matches a month even the fat ones so long as they live in an actual city. Obviously matches don’t mean good chemistry but that’s your job to find out. Most men don’t even get that far

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Anonymous OP 6w

Are you 30? 80 percent of relationships are from the app lmao

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Anonymous #4 6w

Did you ride the short bus in grade school? if you don’t have success/ the LOOKS needed to succeed on a dating app DO.IT.IN.PERSON

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Anonymous #4 6w

No women gets 50 matches your fucking delusional

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Anonymous OP 6w

If you think irl is easier than the app you might be dumb lmao

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Anonymous #4 6w

If dating apps are so easy then why complain about not finding someone? if you can’t even get a DATE then obviously it’s not easier💀

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Anonymous #4 6w

litterally why is so hard about approaching a women like how litterally EVERY other generation besides ours got together

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Anonymous OP 6w

Are you aware of how many people I’ve approached to speak in this manner? Also ik you probably live in the middle of nowhere but yes the average woman is easily clearing 50 likes a month

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Anonymous #4 6w

I live in MI and go to party school, very far from middle of nowhere. And obviously is they are getting 50 likes a month then it is CLEARLY a above average women and the reason why they aren’t responding to you😃 again men dread not getting unachievable women then complain about loneliness. no average women is getting more than maybe 10-15 a month and THATS pushing it

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Anonymous #4 6w

your obviously chronically online if you think 50 men liking a average looking women is our norm.

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Anonymous OP 6w

You live in a low population area and are saying I’m lying because it doesn’t apply lmao. So much for the short bus. Ann Arbor isn’t representative of where most women live in the country

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Anonymous #4 6w

good thing i’m not from Ann Arbor nor do I go to school there lol… mind you michigan is the 10th most populated state so obvious your talking out of your ass not not being factual with what you say.

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Anonymous OP 6w

State pop ≠ city pop unless you’re telling me you think most users have their distance set above 100mi. Which in that case you really are uninformed lmao.

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Anonymous OP 6w

Just accept you don’t live in a place representative of the average woman is it that hard 💀

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Anonymous #4 6w

Dating apps don't just match you with ppl in your city... so the states population matters more than the cities population lol. if your JUST matching with ppl in close range to your city that’s your first issue

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Anonymous OP 6w

Ok yeah you literally don’t know how the apps work then lmao. Most people don’t have their radius set above like 25 miles. And if you did and you still aren’t getting 50 likes you are proving my point even further that you live in a area that’s a poor representation of the average woman in the USA lmao

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Anonymous #4 6w

I dead ass am finding it hilarious that your trying to rank luck based off locations “representation” “If you need to narrow it down to a specific area to make your point, then by definition you’re not talking about the average woman.

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Anonymous OP 6w

If you think living in rural college town in Michigan is = people living in the top 25 metro areas you’re regarded lmao

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Anonymous #4 6w

Whatever helps you sleep at night bud. hope this is a newsflash your your probably chopped and have a shitty personality. if you have this much trouble with women it’s never to late to switch to dick, something you CLEARLY love lol

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Anonymous #4 6w

again that’s not average. If your comparing mega METRO areas Like Miami, LA (mind you most ppl DONT live in those cities lol) etc where it’s filled with someone of the best looking rich/famous ppl then hell yea your shit out of luck. I hope you don’t have a degree bc we would all be doomed.

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Anonymous #4 6w

Maybe take a stats class this semester so you can learn why a fucking average is

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Anonymous OP 6w

Lmao all this coping instead of accepting your experience isn’t reality. Fun fact most Americans live in places where more than 1million people live in a 25mi radius. I’m starting to realize why you aren’t at Ann Arbor and I don’t think it was a choice 💀

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Anonymous #4 6w

You using a college town as an example of where live is stupid… barley anyone goes to college in the same city they are from lol. going to college somewhere doesn’t make it my hometown (which is a metro city) and your just proving my point that it’s a you issue. if you are having a harder time finding ONE date when you live somewhere with 1 MILLION ppl in radius your a ugly chud and have no personality to make up for it.

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Anonymous OP 6w

You literally lost all credibility when you admitted you’re from a metro after telling me I was wrong that the metro is the default dating app experience lmao. Actually regarded

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Anonymous #4 6w

and you lost all credibility when you tried to say you can’t even get a date and only 1-2 matches when your radius is filled with A MILLION ppl lol.

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Anonymous OP 6w

I didn’t say me I said most people. Reading comprehension is important. I’m guessing it wasn’t just the math but also the reading SAT that kept you out. Are you also an ESL student? Did you grow up speaking English at home?

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Anonymous #4 6w

sooo most guys not being able to get a date out of a million options is supposed to represent how woman have it easier? god plz never run for any governmental role, or do seeming your stupidity would make you fit right in

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Anonymous OP 6w

Notice how you didn’t deny being an esl student makes sense lmao. Yeah let’s just forget again the average woman has literally more than 20x the amount of likes the average guy does. If that doesn’t make it easier idk what to tell you. Being able to play vs not even being able to participate means women have it easier yes

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Anonymous #4 6w

I didn’t deny it bc I didn’t acknowledge it as it 1.) had nothing to do with the argument at hand and 2.) is a stupid and ignorant thing to ask (which i’m not). once you provide actual facts with your stupid number count instead of throwing stuff out then we can talk. maybe stop matching ppl who are 10/10s then getting shocked when you have to compete with others for someone clearly very attractive and sought after.

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Anonymous OP 6w

There’s no discussion to be had you can’t even admit most Americans live in near major cities lmao

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Anonymous #4 6w

you’ve gotta be a rage baiter considering the fact your ignoring the most important thing which is the fact that you are blaming the system and WOMEN for the fact that men can’t find 1 single girl out of 1 million options In person or online. but sure let’s focus on establishing stats of the average girl in each area💀

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Anonymous #4 6w

They’re both choices. The male and female loneliness is a choice by both

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Anonymous #6 6w

If you cannot get a date while trying that isn’t a choice. If you can get a date but don’t like the people that is a choice

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Anonymous #4 6w

your not trying. your using a dating app and relying on like counts then dooming all dating after only trying APPS

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Anonymous OP 6w

*you’re Also this isn’t about me. Plus if a guy said he approached irl then you’d be moving the goal post to blame his approach without even seeing it. All women chose to be single same cannot be said about men

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Anonymous #4 6w

wow grammar police on a anonymous app😡😡 And if a man is getting rejected by the same ratio of the amount of like girls that you CLAIM girls get on dating apps then yes I will blame the approach. your truly just a ignorant sad single man. and it’s all women “choose” not “chose” since we are talking present tense.

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Anonymous OP 6w

*you’re just You really aren’t beating the ESL allegations lmao. Men and women do not have an equal amount of interest so your analogy is worthless and uninformed

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Anonymous #4 6w

and ur analysis is based off of misogyny with slight racism with your weird ass obsession with ESL. maybe you will get play when you let the balls drop and stop acting like a sissy

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Anonymous OP 6w

Racism? What race is being targeted here?

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Anonymous #7 6w

you’re not building relationships with women as people. of course you’re lonely— you’re not connecting with other people as people

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Anonymous #7 6w

like yes everyone goes through periods of painful loneliness especially in modern day and maybe even especially men but if your reaction to that is to get all bitter and stop connecting with people as people… you’re going to stay there for a very long time

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