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pahaigee

 Ok so I’m 18f and an incoming freshman. I’ve always looked way younger than my age, people often say I look 14. I’m excited for the social aspect of college and people thinking I’m 14 is going to be a problem. Any ideas on not looking like a kid?
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Anonymous 1d

Honestly probably just dress more adult and maybe use makeup. If you get the right clothes it should help you look more your age. Really though is something you should probably ask your friends in-person about rather than random strangers online, since they could give more direct suggestions

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Anonymous 1d

Show your id🤷🏾‍♂️

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Anonymous 1d

Bruh it’s college who’s gonna think ur 14…

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Anonymous 14h

Get a tat of ronald reagan getting sodomized by the devil on your ass

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Haha I’m just thinking about ways to look approachable to guys. Like if I look 15 then no one will even give me a chance 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

Yeah. And like a big part of it is I’m only 5 foot tall and skinny. My friends are always just like “well just be a slut” and not very helpful for a shy girl

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Anonymous replying to -> pahaigee 1d

Would getting on Tinder help

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

Tinder is so scary 😱

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Anonymous replying to -> pahaigee 1d

How about Hinge or another app

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

Yeah I’m going to look into them. I just assumed I would have the same issues on the apps if I look too young

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Anonymous replying to -> pahaigee 1d

To a certain extent, but having your age as 18 immediately on the app at least makes the person seeing it assume you’re actually 18 and not younger

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

You say this like highschoolers have never snuck into a college party

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

Just carry yourself like an adult don’t listen to these people saying dress slutty or hop on hinge. That’s such a bad fucking way to feel validated esp if ur super shy already like u say.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

Haha thank you for saying that. 75% of the messages I’ve gotten so far are like “oh just show your boobs” like that’s just something casual I can do 🙈

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Anonymous replying to -> pahaigee 23h

Plz do not be a slut

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 14h

(Thats not specific to OP, thats life advice I give everyone)

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Anonymous replying to -> pahaigee 10h

I hate to say this but some older college guys look for that. FUCKING STAY AWAY FROM THEM

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Anonymous replying to -> pahaigee 16m

Yeah fuck those comments. I mean im not a girl but obv the answer isn’t just sexual tf outa yourself 😭😭😭

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