As a girl who is like this with her partner, it can be more than just getting off. I personally love to just be close with him all the time, and sex is my way of doing that. We don’t need to actively be doing the act either, just slip in and hangout, play a game, talk, things like that.

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She just sounds hypersexual and enjoying you. If really bothers youc you need to sit down and say “ hey, can we have serious conversation about something. Sometimes I feel like we can’t even just sit together without you motioning for sex. Sometimes I just want to lay with you, cuddle.” Don’t get defensive just listen to her response. Hopefully it’s a I’m sorry I thought blah blah blah. Then yall say something along the lines of “ in the future can we just tone it down some.”

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my partner has a slightly higher sex drive than me and whenever they initiate or ask for sex and i’m not feeling it, i just say “hey i’m not really feeling it if that’s okay” and they always respect that and then we just cuddle and hang out. please please communicate to her! if you do directly communicate and she continues to overstep your boundaries, that’s where the problem is going to come in.

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Do you mind me asking if every time she brings it up, have you had a conversation with her about this?

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sounds like a mismatch. you guys should break up. coming to a middle ground will only leave both of you annoyed/ unsatisfied. if you are uncomfortable/ overwhelmed/ annoyed, that isnt fair to you if she is always holding back to accommodate you, that isnt fair to her.

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Maybe she’s doing it because SHE desires it, not because she thinks you constantly want it????? Don’t mean you always have to have sex if you don’t want to but it’s selfish of you to think she brings up sex because of you instead of because of herself/her own drive, like wtf??

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Maybe she is more affectionate. She could be doing to you what she wants from you. You can try telling her that you don’t have a high sex drive, but you will work on being more affectionate. Try a hug from behind, a kiss on the forehead or neck, holding hands, and actually asking her to cuddle with no expectations. Just try it out and if this doesn’t work for you and you feel objectified it is okay to tell her that. And if she doesn’t understand then you might have to break up.

3

You just gotta be better at saying “No” and sticking to it when you’re not feeling it

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