
So im 5'2" and one time i got really sick like couldnt even get out of bed sick and lost like 20lbs because i couldnt keep food or water down. I was dating this guy at the time and after i was better i was weighing in at 105lbs. He looked me dead in my eyes and goes "you look so pretty like this" and i said "wdym you can see my spine and ribs" and he said "i know you could honestly get smaller but you look so much better". And thats how i ended up relapsing into anorexia nervosa. Same vibe tbh
No this is a very real comment he would get drunk and tell me hed "🔫 me dead" on more than one occassion, sometimes the best self defense you have is to stay silent until you find a window of opportunity to escape. I do appreciate you #3 for that but in abuse cases like this it would have been dangerous for me to have argued let alone hit him
It sucks especially as someone who grew up learning to protect myself. But at that point i was not strong enough physically or mentally to be able to defend myself in anyway. I think the worst part is that he said it infront of his friends who also did nothing and just told me "thats just him, this is normal behavior for him"