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Adults only (please skip if you’re younger, i want data from adults): how many of yall refuse to let ur partners watch porn? Paid services are things like Only Fans, cam girls, etc Specific boundaries mean: only animated, actor has to look like me, etc
#poll
I don’t allow them to watch porn
I allow them to watch porn
We have specific boundaries
I only don’t allow paid services
Other (specify in comments)
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Anonymous 2d

I read “partners” as “parents” and was shocked how many of y’all were monitoring that

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Anonymous 2d

“I don’t allow” sounds a bit too harsh… that being said, it is clear that we are under the clear understanding it’s unacceptable.

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Anonymous 2d

porn is my main and most harsh boundary because i’ve had bad experiences with letting it fly in the past. it’s not necessarily the porn itself but if a man can’t stop himself from looking at other women then i don’t want him. so idk if this sounds bad but it’s kind of a test for me if someone responds badly to that boundary or “tries” and just can’t stop it tells me a lot about them and how setting boundaries might go in the future.

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Anonymous 2d

i don't think allow is the right word for my situation. we're Christian and it falls into our belief to not watch porn (scientifically, it's bad for you but that's another tangent). however, that's not to say that neither of us have fallen into sin in our relationship. we've communicated that to each other when it's happened.

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Anonymous 2d

i feel like i wouldn’t be upset or mad if i found out if my man does watch pork but giving money to another girl and specifically like choosing her absolutely tf not ur not giving anyone ur money for anything like that i can make u all the content they can tf

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Anonymous 2d

Don’t care

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Anonymous 2d

I allow them to watch porn is diff from the other options meaning that you have no boundaries with what they watch.

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Anonymous 2d

only if we watch together

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Anonymous 7h

I used to do OF and my partner only watches my content 🥰 I watch one specific couple's porn. It doesn't matter to me if my partner did watch anything else as long as it's not a creepy category & doesn't throw off our groove

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Anonymous 2d

i cannot imagine caring this much (or caring at all lowkey tbh) about what my partner watches on his own time. how fucking insecure are you people

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Anonymous 2d

Wtf It’s none of her business if I watch porn or not

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Anonymous 2d

Control freak much

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2d

Me and my boyfriend both watch porn (me less so), but I have a few friends who refuse to allow their boyfriends to. One of them even considers it cheating 😅 I made this survey to see how common it is. My only boundary is he’s not allowed to pay for porn or onlyfans, because that’s too personal imo

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2d

If you’re an adult I think it’s a little insane and insecure if you don’t allow your partner to watch porn if it’s ethical (like a non shady company that exploits their actors), and they’re not addicted 😅 speaking as a woman here

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2d

Me asking a question doesn’t mean Im one of the people who doesnt watch porn or doesn’t let my partner watch porn Im gen curious because I have friends like this who ban their boyfriends from watching porn. One even goons to romance books 😅

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2d

I do think it’s a bad mentality for you to jump to conclusions just because someone asks a question that makes you defensive

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2d

If it doesn’t apply to you, why are you being defensive? my opinion applies to whomever thinks that way

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2d

Your response being “control free much” is overly hostile and presumptuous with no direct subject mentioned

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2d

*freak…you’re overthinking my comment and internalizing it. if it DOESNT apply to you, why get offended? “we choose what offends us”

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2d

That's fair. honestly i don't think i'd even care much if mine paid for porn or onlyfans on a personal level i'd just judge him for it because that's such a waste of money when he has me to look at lmao (also i wanna be clear the second bit of my original comment wasn't directed at you, just at the people who voted no. just in case it came off that way)

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2d

^^this. He is technically allowed to do whatever he wants, he just knows that I consider it cheating and would break up with him if he did it lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 2d

😂

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 2d

so it’s not an “allowing it” as much as a just not for me sort of thing.

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 2d

for context i’m a guy who dates other guys

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 1d

^ This

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