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I hate being so awkward around men I find attractive 😭 I wish I was able to flirt and be more open and comfortable 😔
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Anonymous 14w

just pretend he wants you more. that’s what i do

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Anonymous 14w

That’s half the problem. The other half is them thinking you’re just being nice and friendly instead of flirting

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Anonymous 14w

i felt like that for years and then realized i was a lesbian

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Anonymous 14w

Listen as a guy I would find this cute because I’d be the same exact way!

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Anonymous 14w

Get drunk.

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Anonymous 14w

Me, but a man

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Anonymous 14w

I lose the ability to speak around men I find attractive and it is humiliating 😭

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Anonymous 14w

I’ll help

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Anonymous 14w

bruh i can’t even talk to someone i don’t find attractive 😭

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Anonymous 14w

Who asked

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 14w

Yea any woman that talks to me I just assume she’s being nice

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 14w

Pretty much same. I’m a literal brick wall and I feel bad for any woman who likes me because I’ll never fucking know 🤷‍♂️

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 14w

Lowkey real

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 14w

Lowkey real too

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 14w

So then, if you did like a woman and she liked you, would you want her to just say it outright? And if you didn’t like her, how would you react to her saying that?

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 14w

Not lying, I would need to hear her say it outright. If I didn’t feel the same I would thank her but tell her that I unfortunately couldn’t return her feelings.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 14w

Unfortunately when I get drunk I get even more quite 😔 there are pics of me lowkey meditating at the function

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 14w

That’s honestly really sweet. I told somebody who I was good friends with that I liked him and he distanced himself. It hurt, and that’s why I’m less open about my feelings.

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 14w

U not getting drunk enough gang

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 14w

The wrong kind of rejection can lead to more pain. That’s the last thing I want to do to somebody who was just open about their feelings

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 14w

Ur mom

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 14w

wtf

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 14w

WHERE ARE THE MEN LIKE YOU 😭😭😭 most guys are like "me want woman, woman have to offer herself up on silver platter! 😠🍽️🍗"

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 14w

if you go up to a person thinking that they already have feelings for you, it makes you more confident to be yourself and speak to them without any worries of rejection

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 14w

I got blackout once because I forgot all I had to eat that day were some chips and queso the most that happened was me securing a new roommate then falling in a puddle of water I made by dropping a water bottle in-front of her and my other friend

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Anonymous replying to -> #15 14w

Nah chill not a silver platter but if ur interested u gotta make a first move, u can’t expect the dude u like to start talking to u if they don’t know u

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Anonymous replying to -> #15 14w

Here

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 14w

Think about dick abd flirt for the fun of it. Removes all anxiety

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