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Why does everyone make me feel like a weirdo because I’ve never tried alcohol 🫩
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Anonymous 16w

Typically it’s ’don’t knock it till you try it’ , but if it’s not for you, it’s not for you

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Anonymous 16w

not everyone drinks it's fine who cares

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Anonymous 16w

Cults use initiation rituals as a basis for building trust. Also kinda similar to ppl that go crazy if they found out someone hasn’t seen Star Wars before. I think it could also be something deeper in human nature around tribalism and in-groups/out-groups or wanting to project individual experiences as absolute truths on to other people

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Anonymous 16w

as long as you don't make it some superiority thing being the non drinker, then it's really not an issue, whenever i get offered a drink i just turn it down and say im not into that, havent had any issues

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Anonymous 16w

6 months sober today if you do drink, do it responsibly

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Anonymous 16w

I don’t drink. When I was younger, I informed a family member that I didn’t want to drink, and they appeared offended. It was as if they took it personally. They seemed to feel bad because I didn’t drink. Perhaps people aren’t aware of how to handle someone who doesn’t drink because they might perceive it as a reflection of their own character.

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Anonymous 16w

I don’t think anyone cares but in the culture we have today it is out of the ordinary. It’s like when people act shocked you don’t eat fast food. You’re technically the one doing good for your body but you’re still seen as the outlier

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Anonymous 16w

i mean it is just objectively unusual not to have tried it

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Anonymous 16w

bc you are

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Anonymous 16w

if ur making other people feel bad for drinking because you haven’t drank you’re weird, otherwise that shouldn’t happen tbh

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 16w

All my roommates drink idrc I literally take them to buy drinks they just get mad at me when i deny their offer

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 16w

that's their issue then

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 16w

weird tbh, but you’re not gonna go into a coma over a sip. participate in the activity and have a limit and it’ll go smooth

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 16w

I don’t even tell people I don’t drink they just get mad when I turn it down 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> benjamin.rush 16w

?

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 16w

if op doesn't want to that's their choice why would anyone else care

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 16w

nobody would say anything but it kinda fucks with the vibe when someone denies an offering to have fun with everybody

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 16w

I agree, and I don't drink either, but I'm just saying that taken as a statistical whole it is a small minority of people who have never tried alcohol

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 16w

deny an offer to have fun? jus say you have a problem bro

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 16w

my bad i’m tryna get sendy

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 16w

you not us, drink all you want i don't care but if you're tryna force it on someone else not wanting to you're just a dick

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 16w

Bomboclat

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 16w

Stfu

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 16w

shut up dude nobody said i was forcing it on anyone i don’t fuck with that. all i’m saying is subconsciously everybody can sense someone excluding themself

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 16w

didn't say you were pal sorry you got so upset over that

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 16w

Eh i mean if you want to do it idc, but i think it’s more normal not to? Considering it’s not very good for you

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 16w

it's definitely not good for you but most adults either drink or have at some point

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 16w

congrats!!

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