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Guys thoughts.. should we or should we not confess my feelings to my guy friend we lived in the same hometown but we transferred to different university after community college I saw him was at a concert at la where he hold my hand and idk im confused😭
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Anonymous 4w

If this dude hasn't even reached out to you why are we talking about this? If he hasn't reached out to you him not doing it should be letting you know he's not interested. Him not reaching out to you is an answer

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Anonymous 4w

Why tell him anything if he hasn't called you at all?

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4w

You really what her to end up a just the random wedding list invite damn

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4w

The hand gesture is one of many signs and details he’s given her about his feelings, keep in mind he knows her so much that he feels he can only do these details hoping she’ll say something. In his mind breaking out the friendzone he sees himself in with her is tough, especially seeing that she hasn’t given any visible responses to his small moves, if she did that would have been a greenlight for him a long time ago

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4w

Dawg they was deadass hanging out together at a concert not too long ago, guy has clearly made small gestures during their time together trying to see how she responds, based on OPs writing she just got shy but in the end didn’t give a visible positive response for him to do anything. At this point that might have been one of if not his last try to be more than friends with her

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

Why go through anything if either one of them is too stupid and scared to say anything about how they feel?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

Thank you for a whole fucking recap story that I didn't ask for. If I wanted to know the whole story I could've read it

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4w

Ay this point she has to take initiative in some ways, cause the guy might start to move elsewhere as he feels she only sees him as a friend when she clearly likes him a lot, I seen so many wonderful relationships not flourishing not happen cause of this. So don’t sell her on who’s the most stubborn game and let her do what her heart is calling her to do ✌️

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

Sell her on what? Why are you even talking to me?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

And they're fucking stupid. I have no sympathy for anyone that won't even speak up for themselves

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4w

This has turned into a self ragebait comment, thanks for playing

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

You people are fucking sick

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

I can't believe the level of idiocy of people online 🤣

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4w

You people? All she’s doing is asking for help, not everyone has everything figured out, but if they are trying to do so you shouldn’t shut them down, that’s extremely disgusting and terrible of you if you have a conscience. YOU didn’t have to comment anything, but the shell of anonymous mixed with your TikTok brain has you trying to attack someone instead of trying to see they clearly need a small piece of advice. Now whatever they do after is their choice and not ours, good day ✌️

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