is it selfish of me to want to have a bigger apartment when we live in a 1b/1b where the bathroom sink is in the fucking bedroom? and we pay >$1.1k a month for this shithole? bc my boyfriend called me selfish for wanting to find a new place :/
Save quietly for a downpayment. Look at houses and make up excuses. Get a house and move out. Let him stay there alone. But don’t waste more on an apartment