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Women constantly complain about a specific, toxic behavior from men, while men virtually never complain about that behavior from women, how can men claim it's just a "both sides" issue instead of facing the fact that it's a massive, male-driven problem?
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Anonymous 13h

Just bc men don’t complain about it doesn’t mean it doesn’t happen. There are different problems for men and women.

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Anonymous 14h

What’s the specific toxic behavior?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 14h

From experience and other women’s stories behaviors could include unsolicited sexualization, hostile rejection when boundaries are set, incel entitlement, conversational dominance, the "nice guy" act, and gaslighting women’s safety concerns.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13h

At least half of that comes down to bad communication practices on both ends. Sometimes the women sometimes the men on top of the fact that something like 60-70% of the female population only going after the top 10% of men and guys getting let down after shooting their shot with people they see as equals makes them feel pretty defeated

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13h

That "60-70% / top 10%" stat is literally a copy-paste myth from old incel forums. Blaming women's dating standards also doesn’t excuse harassment, hostility, or treating people like objects when you get rejected. That's not a communication issue, it’s a complete lack of accountability.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12h

Women definitely do unsolicited sexualization. I have experienced multiple times. We men just don’t think it’s as big of a deal as women do.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 10h

Facts. I’ve literally been spanked by a girl at the mall and she said some kinda pickup line but I have no fucking clue my face was red and I basically ran away. I was like 15 😂

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