
At least half of that comes down to bad communication practices on both ends. Sometimes the women sometimes the men on top of the fact that something like 60-70% of the female population only going after the top 10% of men and guys getting let down after shooting their shot with people they see as equals makes them feel pretty defeated
That "60-70% / top 10%" stat is literally a copy-paste myth from old incel forums. Blaming women's dating standards also doesn’t excuse harassment, hostility, or treating people like objects when you get rejected. That's not a communication issue, it’s a complete lack of accountability.