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How do I become me again? I dated a guy from hs into college for 3 years. I don’t regret it because he made me super picky standards wise and I learned to not take disrespect. But at the same time he stole my spark. I’m not happy like I was before him.
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Anonymous 1w

It takes time. Also try new things! Do things that you wanted to do but didn’t actually do! It’s the little things over time that will help

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Anonymous 1w

Start with the hobbies and activities that you used to enjoy. See if you still like them. Reflect on why or why not. Then branch out and try new things.

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Anonymous 1w

You’re gonna give him the honor of taking your spark?

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