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Men, did you ever date anxious attached girlies? How did that go for you?
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Anonymous 21h

yes holy shit if you don’t have patience then don’t do it. It’s not bad but just so much reassurance and patience is needed. I could handle it just fine and she was happy but then she did something I had to break up over. Then the whole breakup was hell too then due the anxiousness and attachment. We’re still on good terms lol

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Anonymous 17h

Yes but I also have some anxious attachment so it was a lot of us constantly reassuring each other and me being way more vulnerable than I should have been to make her comfortable. When I eventually broke up with her we went through some weird phases and now whenever we’re in the same room she pretends I don’t exist

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Anonymous 21h

Lmk when you have the answer

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Anonymous 21h

No ive never been in a relationship before

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 20h

Out of curiosity how do you go from a whole breakup hell to being good terms? Because with my experience these people are all over the place and have insane mood swings and shifting patterns of feelings on the dot

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 13h

Gang this sounds just like what happened to me

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 6h

Breakup was hell just because it was a breakup but with her attachment issues and all and now. Not so much hell like hating each other but emotionally exhausting hell. We are now on good terms again, probably due a to those same attachments lol

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