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So is courting not a thing anymore ?
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Anonymous 1w

What does courting look like to you? Also tinder is easier so like yeah, you’d have to be some fine shit for me to court you in 2026

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Anonymous 1w

this is something I’ve answered numerous times now and courting the process of courting has been lost mainly due to the fact of things like Tinder and hook up culture. due to apps like Tinder hinge, sewn, and so forth, and the speed in which people form relationships the according process which used to take maybe three months now is done and usually a month and in that month, you cannot learn nearly as much as a person as you could in three months.

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Anonymous 1w

I came here expecting to find a yearner like Anthony Bridgerton 🙂 so far nothing

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Anonymous 6d

For real! I want to be courted 😞😞😞😞😞

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

Despite #1’s utter lack of… decorum… he’s not wrong. Only the most attractive people get courted anymore. Most us mere mortals just get to endlessly swipe on the apps and wait…

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Anonymous replying to -> navy_cupcake 1w

The other reason being is that in terms of gratification and dopamine these days, people would rather find the fastest way to get these things and to do so a hook up is a lot faster and provides dopamine quickly so they would rather do that then go through the courting process

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